Kirstineridesagain
Well-Known Member
In the past couple of years I've shared horses, but my latest share just came to an end due to the owners giving my space to another person while I was on holiday. Such a shame, as I had agreed I didn't have to pay for the month and a half I was away, and they still gave away my spot without any warning or opportunity for me to secure the spot by paying. It was a lovely horse and I was so looking forward to riding her again.
I'm wondering if, instead of sharing a horse (which costs about £20 a week) I should save £40 each week and buy a horse instead in a couple of years time. The only problem would be that my skills would suffer and I might lose confidence. I've ridden loads om holiday this summer. Lots of mountain rides, really tricky but great for my confidence. Also a great hack on an Icelandic in Germany which made me fall in love with the breed.
My husband is convinced it's super costly to keep a horse. We have friends who have smaller ponies who have offered to keep it there, but not for free obviously. I'm just planning to hack and do fun rides etc, perhaps the odd lesson. I realise insurance, feed, dentist, farrier, vet etc does cost a fair amount. But I'm just fed up being at the mercy of horse owners who treat sharers as muck (this is my second bad experience...). I'm an adult (mid forties) and a mum but feel like a 12-year-old girl when horse owners talk to me. I also hate having to leave horses that I've got to know and bond with. Having my own would mean I could really allow myself to care for the horse and not having to leave it after a few months.
Any advice?
I'm wondering if, instead of sharing a horse (which costs about £20 a week) I should save £40 each week and buy a horse instead in a couple of years time. The only problem would be that my skills would suffer and I might lose confidence. I've ridden loads om holiday this summer. Lots of mountain rides, really tricky but great for my confidence. Also a great hack on an Icelandic in Germany which made me fall in love with the breed.
My husband is convinced it's super costly to keep a horse. We have friends who have smaller ponies who have offered to keep it there, but not for free obviously. I'm just planning to hack and do fun rides etc, perhaps the odd lesson. I realise insurance, feed, dentist, farrier, vet etc does cost a fair amount. But I'm just fed up being at the mercy of horse owners who treat sharers as muck (this is my second bad experience...). I'm an adult (mid forties) and a mum but feel like a 12-year-old girl when horse owners talk to me. I also hate having to leave horses that I've got to know and bond with. Having my own would mean I could really allow myself to care for the horse and not having to leave it after a few months.
Any advice?