Gwena
Well-Known Member
Hi, I've hit a bit of a brick wall with my daughter, 9yrs old. She's a quiet girl and tries her best to please and usually hides all type of emotion (which does make her quite hard to read sometimes).
We've had this new pony for 3 weeks now and only just managed to get a saddle that fits from the saddle fitter.
She had her first lesson on her tonight at the new livery yard with her lovely riding instructor. Pony was fine albeit a bit stubborn to get into trot and she did get a bit whizzy on one corner. Nothing that daughter would normally bat an eye lid at. But she was awful. Stiff sat forwards wouldn't let give the reins any slack and very very quiet and pale!
It didn't help that the YO's husband was bombing about in a tractor swinging a big bag of rubber chippings from its scoop (am really not happy about this, I did say to him this is daughters first proper ride & didn't know if it was a good idea but he carried on anyway). Daughter is wary of tractors after seeing me on a horse a couple of weeks ago nearly go down a ditch backwards on a horse!
The instructor was brilliant she even got on the pony to show daughter that the worse (or is it worst???) thing that she would do would be scoot forward a couple of steps and reassured her that she could handle it. After the lesson she said she was sorry if she had disappointed me. Gutted :-(
Less than a week ago she was cantering a 6yo 16:3 round the school so don't know whats happened!
How would you handle this?
We've had this new pony for 3 weeks now and only just managed to get a saddle that fits from the saddle fitter.
She had her first lesson on her tonight at the new livery yard with her lovely riding instructor. Pony was fine albeit a bit stubborn to get into trot and she did get a bit whizzy on one corner. Nothing that daughter would normally bat an eye lid at. But she was awful. Stiff sat forwards wouldn't let give the reins any slack and very very quiet and pale!
It didn't help that the YO's husband was bombing about in a tractor swinging a big bag of rubber chippings from its scoop (am really not happy about this, I did say to him this is daughters first proper ride & didn't know if it was a good idea but he carried on anyway). Daughter is wary of tractors after seeing me on a horse a couple of weeks ago nearly go down a ditch backwards on a horse!
The instructor was brilliant she even got on the pony to show daughter that the worse (or is it worst???) thing that she would do would be scoot forward a couple of steps and reassured her that she could handle it. After the lesson she said she was sorry if she had disappointed me. Gutted :-(
Less than a week ago she was cantering a 6yo 16:3 round the school so don't know whats happened!
How would you handle this?