yolandeloves
Member
Hi everyone!
feel like i'm posting every second but have another question. I've been riding for about six weeks now and I'm really struggling to get the horses I'm learning on to listen to me.
Had a lesson today and I spent most of it not learning anything but just trying to get the horse to keep trotting as it kept stopping every 5 steps.
It's a problem I've had over several lessons with different horses and I've been told that I'm too easy on the horses so they don't listen to me and I need to be stronger.
My question is what can I do to gain their respect? I think I'm fairly firm with my commands but they often start following my command then stop and do what they want and I've spent several lessons just focusing on getting them to trot when I say trot and turn when I say turn! I feel like a lesson is too short to really build a relationship with a horse that isn't yours and I'm rarely riding the same horse.
I would really appreciate any tips on how to be more assertive and what I can do besides constantly kicking and whipping them as I'm starting to get really frustrated and feeling like I'm not learning just fighting the same battles repeatedly.
feel like i'm posting every second but have another question. I've been riding for about six weeks now and I'm really struggling to get the horses I'm learning on to listen to me.
Had a lesson today and I spent most of it not learning anything but just trying to get the horse to keep trotting as it kept stopping every 5 steps.
It's a problem I've had over several lessons with different horses and I've been told that I'm too easy on the horses so they don't listen to me and I need to be stronger.
My question is what can I do to gain their respect? I think I'm fairly firm with my commands but they often start following my command then stop and do what they want and I've spent several lessons just focusing on getting them to trot when I say trot and turn when I say turn! I feel like a lesson is too short to really build a relationship with a horse that isn't yours and I'm rarely riding the same horse.
I would really appreciate any tips on how to be more assertive and what I can do besides constantly kicking and whipping them as I'm starting to get really frustrated and feeling like I'm not learning just fighting the same battles repeatedly.