aregona
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well as title 
My SJing has not really improved much this year but not been too bad but is now getting worse.
I haven't been enjoying my SJing this year and it has been the ''oh god SJing next'' phase of the eventing. But i have only been having a pole down with some clear rounds so not talking falling off, crashing bad, just not consitantly clear.
I went SJing yesterday. My 2 boys Riley (BE100 horse) and Udo ~(BE90) have been jumping so well at home and jumping around 1.10 tracks. My instructor was very pleased with my progress at home as was I.
But yesterday i ****ed up so bad
I took Udo into the 2'9'' (was meant to start with 3'0'' but wanted to play safe). It wasn't great, i kept missing a stride and he had to really help me out. A couple of long ones and short ones, one moment i took off before him and got head butted but just one down. I realised i was not keeping the canter hence not getting a stride.
So went into the 3'0'' with the ''let's keep the impulsion and going forwards'' but i feel the damage was already done in the first class. Udo wouldn't go forwards for me, he was bouncing on the spot. I had to really push him which resulted in him then running into the bottom of the fences and going through them
I got as far as fence 5 and decided it was really not working and pulled up. Poor Udo.
So after a mini panic attack, after coming out of the ring i couldn't breath i was so upset. I ran back to the lorry to tack Riley up (same saddle as Udo). By the time i got on riley they were calling the horse before me into the ring, i had chance for a cross pole and then i was in again as i was the last competitor, and sure enough, i did the same. I missed the stride so badly to the first, Riley took off early and i got left behind so bad his head was higher than mine
which of course really upset him and after another display of getting close and launching we had 4 down and i decided there was no point taking riley in the next class either and went home

I have spent the last 24 hours trying to decide where to go from here. Udo is 17.1hh (the grey in my sig) and is a very big horse for me, he is my dads horse but he doesnt have any time to ride him hence giving the ride to me, but i do find Udo hard to jump. He is not a 'natural'. He has a huge jump but not that quick where his legs go but has been getting so much better over the last year.
My dad is convinced i am trying too hard and i just need to find the 'key' to jumping him around tracks bigger than 2'9'', and although my instructor says i ride him very well at home, she does refer to him as a 'man's horse'.
Although i am really not happy about the way i rode Riley, im not too unhappy as i think had i had the time to warm up properly and calm myself down we would of been ok.
I have entered them both into an eventers training on saturday and now i don't know what to do. They are both in the 3'2'' class which i am obviously not going to take Udo into. But i am unsure whether to drop him down into the 2'9'' or whether to go for the 2'6'' and make it really easy for the both of us.
I know it is my confidence causing the problems but i just don't know what to do about it. I am meant to be practising my SJing over the winter ready for eventing next year as i wanted them both to go up a level and instead i am going backwards!!!!
Please help, anyone any advise on how to try and sort out a muppet rider???????
Sorry for the long boring post, special K with strawberries alround
My SJing has not really improved much this year but not been too bad but is now getting worse.
I haven't been enjoying my SJing this year and it has been the ''oh god SJing next'' phase of the eventing. But i have only been having a pole down with some clear rounds so not talking falling off, crashing bad, just not consitantly clear.
I went SJing yesterday. My 2 boys Riley (BE100 horse) and Udo ~(BE90) have been jumping so well at home and jumping around 1.10 tracks. My instructor was very pleased with my progress at home as was I.
But yesterday i ****ed up so bad
I took Udo into the 2'9'' (was meant to start with 3'0'' but wanted to play safe). It wasn't great, i kept missing a stride and he had to really help me out. A couple of long ones and short ones, one moment i took off before him and got head butted but just one down. I realised i was not keeping the canter hence not getting a stride.
So went into the 3'0'' with the ''let's keep the impulsion and going forwards'' but i feel the damage was already done in the first class. Udo wouldn't go forwards for me, he was bouncing on the spot. I had to really push him which resulted in him then running into the bottom of the fences and going through them
So after a mini panic attack, after coming out of the ring i couldn't breath i was so upset. I ran back to the lorry to tack Riley up (same saddle as Udo). By the time i got on riley they were calling the horse before me into the ring, i had chance for a cross pole and then i was in again as i was the last competitor, and sure enough, i did the same. I missed the stride so badly to the first, Riley took off early and i got left behind so bad his head was higher than mine
I have spent the last 24 hours trying to decide where to go from here. Udo is 17.1hh (the grey in my sig) and is a very big horse for me, he is my dads horse but he doesnt have any time to ride him hence giving the ride to me, but i do find Udo hard to jump. He is not a 'natural'. He has a huge jump but not that quick where his legs go but has been getting so much better over the last year.
My dad is convinced i am trying too hard and i just need to find the 'key' to jumping him around tracks bigger than 2'9'', and although my instructor says i ride him very well at home, she does refer to him as a 'man's horse'.
Although i am really not happy about the way i rode Riley, im not too unhappy as i think had i had the time to warm up properly and calm myself down we would of been ok.
I have entered them both into an eventers training on saturday and now i don't know what to do. They are both in the 3'2'' class which i am obviously not going to take Udo into. But i am unsure whether to drop him down into the 2'9'' or whether to go for the 2'6'' and make it really easy for the both of us.
I know it is my confidence causing the problems but i just don't know what to do about it. I am meant to be practising my SJing over the winter ready for eventing next year as i wanted them both to go up a level and instead i am going backwards!!!!
Please help, anyone any advise on how to try and sort out a muppet rider???????
Sorry for the long boring post, special K with strawberries alround