I feel terrible. so stupid

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I know you know more than me and are not as stupid but,
I’m writing this as a warning to all people looking to buy a horse or pony.

Charles is a 16.2hh Chestnut Thoroughbred type. He arrived at my yard on March 15th 2008, under-weight and sad. Over the last 5 months he has gained weight and muscle, and unfortunately has become more dominant. He became very aggressive and nasty, lashing out, biting refusing to be caught and kicking. Under saddle he was an angel.

We decided something had to be done, and we called the vet to check for any problems that could be causing this behaviour, with the prospect of then getting a behaviourist.
We discovered that he was in pain, lame down his back and neck, had disgustingly sharp teeth and pain in his poll. The vet also took blood samples to check that he wasn’t a rig, and to make sure his liver and kidneys were ok.

When we bought Charles, we were told by the woman that he had had his teeth done the same week and that he’d been given the all clear by the vet. Stupidly, we trusted her and went ahead and bought him.

I know that every book/magazine pushes you to have a horse vetted before purchasing. It’s common sense. I was stupid and believed the woman who sold him. I now have a horse in pain and a huge vet bill. Please, please, please don’t ignore this rule as vetting a horse is one of the most important things you can do when buying. I know you lot aren't as stupid as i am.

I feel awful, my poor poor boy.
 
thank you for the warning. well done for doing everything right for your lad, it sounds as if he's very very lucky to have landed on his feet with you. i really hope he'll start repaying all your effort once all his pain has gone, and turn into a lovely horse for you.
 
Oh dear not good news. Don't give up yet though these things can come right once you manage to get to the bottom of the problem. But yes, it is a warning to people to get a horse vetted before purchase and also often there is a reason why people have kept a horse in poor condition.

I hope it all works out for you and Charles.
 
Dont be so hard on yourself - everyone makes erors of judgement.

The important thing seems to be that you recognised something was wrong and are taking steps to help him - you should feel good about that. Hope everything works out for you - one bit of advice I would give is get the vet to do his teeth so they can sedate him and get right to the back ones which are often missed
 
Good luck to you and Charles - however it sounds positive and I'm sure he will make a lovely horse at the end of it.
I had a horse given to me and didn't vet her. The vet's bills and loss of use ended up costing me far more than a vetting would have. She is a gorgeous mare, but I eventually had to give her away to someone who wanted a companion and light hack because of her condition. Insurance wouldn't pay the vet bills because they said it was a pre-existing condition (and without a vet certificate how could I argue with them??). I will never again take a horse without a full vetting, even a horse that is free...
 
No, well done you for caring about him so much and being honest about your mistake in not having him vetted.

You shouldnt feel guilty at all, the evil witches who sell horses on in all that pain should do.

Lots of best wishes to Charles
 
this might sound stupid but maybe this has happened for a reason, I'm a great beleiver in things happening for a reason. He's ended up in a great home, with someone who will love and look after him and do their best to sort the problem out, and he will repay you in due course when he realises you're trying to help not hurt him. He'll be the best mistake you've made soon
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Well you're sorting him out now, plus his teeth will have got sharper in the last 6onths (so won't have been as bad when you brought him).

You won't be the 1st or the last to be too trusting.....................hell my friend believed the dealer her mum brought a pony from when she said it was up to date with its worming....................It was so riddle large round worms were found in its dung and then when it was wormed, its poo turned red with all the small red worms which were expelled!!!!
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Its very brave of you to post this... and serves as a useful reminder to us all to have new horses vetted.
Very Best of luck to you and Charles. I hope he starts to improve soon.
 
He's a lucky horse to have found you and well done for getting it sorted. If he was nice to ride even with his problems just think how fantastic he will be when everything is sorted. I am sure he will get better on the ground too!
 
Merrymaker and Cracklin Rosie , I couldn't agree more. I too believe that things happen for a reason and I do hope he turns out to be a star for you. You deserve it, and so does he.
 
Unfortunately, this sounds all too familiar. I bought my boy and , despite a 5 stage vetting, had similar problems when he arrived
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It was awful to start with and very expensive vets bills to sort out the problems, so even sometimes a vetting doesn't work out.

I'm sure the seller and vet were in cahoots with each other. B*stards. So please please please watch out for dealers particularly in West Wales.
 
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