i had a stroke when out riding, my horse got me home safely

Shady

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everybody here has or has had that special horse, special in that he took you where you wanted to be competitively, special in that he makes your heart sing just to look at him or you feel on top of the world just gently hacking through the woods, they are all amazing in some way.
for me, my lovely horse got me home in the middle of an unbelievable storm when i was half blind, confused and un co-ordinated after having had a stroke in the middle of no where. if you have a minute i'd love to tell you about him.
i learnt to ride late in life and was still very much a novice when i bought my first horse, everybody told me not to buy him..' you can't learn to ride on an Arab' was the general opinion of all except his owner who told me i would never find another horse like him and that he would look after me in all ways. i had my suspicions that he would be like 'that new anti- wrinkle' cream that you had such hopes for , great packaging, marketing but in the end total cr*p . his name is Shadow and yes he is grey and yes he was owned by a teenager( god love them for their naming of horses!) he was amazing from day one, gentle , calm, he viewed life like a hippy with a joint, all the world loved him and he gave it back, quads, bikes, lorries ,dogs, hunters, all could pass him by and he just floated along , heaven to ride but you had to RIDE him, not drift off, he would not just follow the horse in front.
i had had a headache for weeks after a friends horse knocked me down and i fell badly , i didn't know till later that it had made a tear in my caratoid artery and it had been bleeding into my brain slowly, typical that the one day i went further than normal was the day it finally 'got' me.
i suddenly went dizzy and blind in one eye, i was cantering slowly but fell off , i felt really confused and to make matters worse it started raining hard, i found myself lying in the rain, crying and really scared,i couldn't seem to co ordinate myself , it was awful. Shadow was next to me and i made myself get back on him but suddenly being half blind was terrible and by now thunder and lightening had joined the rain . Shadow was amazing , he just started walking slowly back the way we had come with me a useless lump on his back, it took 2 hours and he never spooked, even with lightening crashing down near us , he got me home.
i spent 2 weeks in hospital, 4 months before i was allowed to ride again and i stayed half blind in one eye and a bit more ditzy than i was before, my lovely boy continues to look after me, i think he's pretty special, perhaps you have one like him? i would love to know
 
What a wonderful horse you have. When you have a real connection with a particular horse it is amazing what they will do for you. Darned scary experience for you and I hope you're back to good health now.
 
Oh I seem to have something in my eye... Lovely post OP. Long may your relationship continue, I'm sure you'll get better with such a good friend by your side.
 
I could tell you many stories of horses, I've known doing amazing things, but your horse is beyond special. What a beautiful boy. I'm so glad he continues to look after you, and glad that you are perceptive enough to realise what a partnership yu have with him.

Wishing you a steady and progressive recovery.
 
You really do have an amazing horse, what a story!! I hope that you are well on the way to recovery though.
The last time I fell off out hacking, my horse was so concerned for me that he rushed off to get help(in my dreams) No, he galloped off, through farmer's newly planted field and into someone's garden. I trudged homewards not knowing where he'd gone. Not to be recommended, so you have a gem OP!!
 
Wow that got me. What an incredible boy and you must take credit for your part of that trusting relationship. Hope you continue to improve in heath.
 
Wow that had me a little choked Amazing horse taking such good care of you. Think mine would stick her head down and eat ! And how amazing you got back on and so fortunate you were able stay all that way WOW WOW WOW
Yes pics required of the hero :-)
 
Oh wow OP I can not even begin to imagine how scared you must have been, your story has me literally in tears. What a truely incredable horse, although I can't say im suprised, being an "arab person" myself, I know they are highly intelligent and so in tune to our emotions when we have that bond with them.
I hope you have many happy years with your amazing boy ahead of you x
 
your wonderful replies brought tears to MY eyes! i had a dream when i was a child to have a horse but i never thought i would have one like Shadow, it was heart breaking to watch his previous owners parting from him , the husband had to walk away and his owner told me it was like a death in the family when he went, i can see why and they agreed to me buying him only because they felt that above all other things that i would love him and never sell him, i promised them this and we have stayed good friends, they deserved huge respect in that they bought Shadow as a yearling , the 13 year old daughter broke and trained him and i have benefited beyond belief from the love and care they gave him. since my stroke my reflexes aren't so quick, spacial awareness is rubbish and i am certain he has stopped me from riding into many a tree! even when i know he really wants to take off after his friends when i am out with others he never does, really, what more can you ask for?
 
Wow, what an amazing and touching story! Shady, I am really happy to hear you are still able to ride Shadow and that he takes good care of you. It must be a very special relationship.
 
Wow. Amazing! Your horse sounds one in a million. Thanks for sharing. Wishing you many more happy years together and hope you are fighting fit again.
 
He sounds pretty special - I love my mare but she looks after herself first and last. You must have an amazing bond. I hope your health is improving and you get to keep enjoying your boy.
 
Beautiful story what a special horse and so glad you are back to good health! :) Hes definitely a keeper this horsie!! I have no doubt one of mine would get me back to the yard if this happened because whenever we are out she naps the whole way round and cant wait to get back to the yard!
 
What a beautiful story, he sounds like a wonderful horse and you must have an incredible relationship. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope your health is improving
 
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What a totally amazing story and what a super horse/friend you have. This story has brought a tear to my eye. I hope you continue to get better and continue to enjoy your special horse.
 
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