Leo Walker
Well-Known Member
Bobbie has to be sold. I'm losing my sight and I cant find any way I can keep a pony when I'm blind. I thought I had more time, but I lose my driving licence in 3 weeks and the prognosis for my vision is beyond poor. I'm suicidal with grief and misery and having a very hard time coming to terms with this, but it has to be done. The only thing keeping me going right now is focusing on getting her into the right home. I cant loan her as I cant have her coming back from loan at a future date when I cant physically cope with it which makes it harder. How do I find the right person? I dont care about money, I just want her in a long term home with someone who will love her and appreciate her.
I dont think I can cope with advertising her, I'm so heartbroken I can barely write this and theres no way I could speak to someone on the phone about her. I'm worried if I send her on sales livery I lose control of who she goes to, but maybe I'm just making excuses. I dont know what will happen to me once shes gone, I suspect I'm heading for some sort of breakdown as my life is pretty miserable with pain and mobility issues and I've relied on the horses to keep me going. I just dont really have anything else, and if I cant see there arent many things I will be able to do. Life barely feels worth living a lot of the time now but without the pony I have nothing and the thought of it is unbearable.
There is no help available from the NHS. They feel very sorry for me and dont know how I am coping, but there is no resources other than a community outreach nurse, who will be in touch in approx 8 weeks. I've not been able to go to work and quite frankly I dont care anymore. A few more weeks of working isnt going to make much difference. I'm in no state to manage it right now.
My friends are trying to support me but its not helping me having people say "oh you cant sell her, you love her" etc, etc. I've had to deal with lots of well meaning offers of help which dont change anything and just leave me saying thank you and having to explain it all over again upsetting me more and more every time. My partner also feels very sorry for me, but seems to be in denial that its happening. He seems to think this is because I dont really fancy going back to work after I've been on holiday I've tried to talk to him about money and how we are going to manage with one wage but hes avoiding it and i'm struggling to be able to talk about it. I think we will probably manage to keep the house, but its going to be a massive struggle financially so whilst I dont care about the money I get for her, I probably should.
I just dont even know where to start or how I can possibly do this.
I dont think I can cope with advertising her, I'm so heartbroken I can barely write this and theres no way I could speak to someone on the phone about her. I'm worried if I send her on sales livery I lose control of who she goes to, but maybe I'm just making excuses. I dont know what will happen to me once shes gone, I suspect I'm heading for some sort of breakdown as my life is pretty miserable with pain and mobility issues and I've relied on the horses to keep me going. I just dont really have anything else, and if I cant see there arent many things I will be able to do. Life barely feels worth living a lot of the time now but without the pony I have nothing and the thought of it is unbearable.
There is no help available from the NHS. They feel very sorry for me and dont know how I am coping, but there is no resources other than a community outreach nurse, who will be in touch in approx 8 weeks. I've not been able to go to work and quite frankly I dont care anymore. A few more weeks of working isnt going to make much difference. I'm in no state to manage it right now.
My friends are trying to support me but its not helping me having people say "oh you cant sell her, you love her" etc, etc. I've had to deal with lots of well meaning offers of help which dont change anything and just leave me saying thank you and having to explain it all over again upsetting me more and more every time. My partner also feels very sorry for me, but seems to be in denial that its happening. He seems to think this is because I dont really fancy going back to work after I've been on holiday I've tried to talk to him about money and how we are going to manage with one wage but hes avoiding it and i'm struggling to be able to talk about it. I think we will probably manage to keep the house, but its going to be a massive struggle financially so whilst I dont care about the money I get for her, I probably should.
I just dont even know where to start or how I can possibly do this.