I just feel really happy!

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Hee hee,

just sitting here looking back over old photos and videos of my boy. We are taking a competitive break for a bit due to upcoming nuptuals/honeymoon and he hasn't had a break for a while so think it will do him good.

I think it's quite a good time to look back and re-assess how far we have come and what still needs to be worked on, what we would like to achieve ect.

When I got him all I wanted was just a nice horse to have fun on. That's it. Wasn't sure if a scrawney 4yr old ex-racer was really the ticket but I liked him.

Just so proud of how far we have come! To me the most important thing was to bring him on to be the sort of horse that is always useful. Not to be a superstar or an incredible competition horse or anything. Not to achieve xyz but to be the sort of horse that can turn its hoof to anything, that was happy, confident, well behaved, easy in all situations. The sort of horse I always wanted and to bring him on in such a way that if I ever did have to sell him that he would have the best chance of going to a good home.

I think it's easy to be focused on one discipline or achieving a certain goal and I was (are!) more concerned with the bigger picture, mainly because I have my horse do other things than just win a rosette like hacking and cuddling and brushing :p.

Well he came with a bit of a nasty spin in him out hacking (which to be fair was more funny than scary but I didn't let him know that I found it funny :p) and he was just a very blank canvas!

I've worked out that over the past 2.5yrs we must have done a good 30/40 different outings. It hasn't always been easy, iv'e doubted myself lots and my ability. We have had days when Iv'e had to really sit tight, clench my teeth and be brave (joys of a young TB!). The first hack out alone, the first jump, the first show. There has been mountinous amounts of money spent on osteos, saddlers, dentists, horse communicators. There has been the odd tear but mostly actually there has been smiles and pats. Its so rewarding bringing on a young horse and watching them grow.

We have done numerous clinics and lessons. He hacks alone and in company, front or behind. Ive jumped tiger traps, ditches and crossed fords out hacking, gone exploring, gone galloping. He's seen hounds and has competed on the RC dr and SJ area teams and done a good job, he's done decent unaff and aff tests with rosettes and a few BD points to show for it (a miracle when you consider I look like a crouching hobbit when I ride!). He jumps anything, wobbled clear round his first SJ, didnt even notice his first water tray, has helped me out when Ive messed up and been there to catch me the other side :p. Ive done my first ODE's in 12 years, dying of nerves and he's carried me round clear in every one. He's been placed showing, lets me ride him bareback, and I jumped my first 4ft oxer in a long while. I can ride him in wind,rain after a day off, a week off without a worry. I can take him out on my own in the lorry and he is easy.

He's gone from the sort of horse that had people thinking 'really??' when I first got him to the sort of horse that prompts the same people to say 'wow, look at him now!'.

I get down when I see people with their lovely horses soaring up the grades in a particular discipline knowing that I may not have the bottle or the talent for that sort of thing but then when I think of everything above i'm so proud of what WE have done and i've managed to achieve exactly what I have always wanted. Also who knows what the future will bring ;).

A few little pictures of our journey!

First day I met him:-

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First jump:-

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First show:-

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and now :) :-

permission to post from nicola elliott photography

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permission from santaclause on here:-

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I have literally tens of thousands more photos as you probably all know but not all of the good ones I have permission for. I have permission for every single photo here as apart from the nicola elliott one the rest are not pro photos and were taken by myself, my mum, my dad and santa claus the hho member. :D

I think it is good sometimes as an amature one horse rider, when it is easy to feel like a pile of useless cr@p to look back at the journey. My journey so far with my scrap heap scrawney TB. So proud of him and me and I am so so happy! I won't be posting any reports for a couple of months hence this little deluge of Jae happiness! I just hope i'm blessed with lots more years to come with him and lots of happy times. Unfortunatly I've learnt over the past few years how suddenly our beloved horses can be taken away from us and I want to appreciate every moment.

:) :)
 
That is so lovely & i can completely relate to it, i lost the ride on a fantastic horse that unfortunately the owner wud nt sell- i didnt have the money 2 buy something of said horses calibre or experiance since i had started jumping him thru classes- my only choice was to start again- i bought a lightly backed 4yr old that had only been loosed jumped & started over. With age comes nerves, & although competing in juniors very successfully- i decided if i cud produce this 4yr old 2 jump round a 1m track consistently & well i wud be happy. Ive just found out im pregnant, tired & very sick.. So he too is having a well deserved break- hes 7 now, not only has he jumped out of BN & D, qualified scope every year, given me the confidence to jump NC & clr!! But hes is the safest most amazing horse i e ever had the pleasure of, he tries his hardest with everything & everything i do with him is fun :-) Hes had 8 poles down i 3yrs, & ive made plenty of mistakes in the ring on our journey & he never holds this against me. Sorry 2hijack ur thread, but wat im trying to say although we have both no doubt workedhard we r both truley lucky to have such horses cone into our lives. Ur boy is stunning by the way- a credit to u. I hope they both enjoy there breaks xx
 
That is so lovely & i can completely relate to it, i lost the ride on a fantastic horse that unfortunately the owner wud nt sell- i didnt have the money 2 buy something of said horses calibre or experiance since i had started jumping him thru classes- my only choice was to start again- i bought a lightly backed 4yr old that had only been loosed jumped & started over. With age comes nerves, & although competing in juniors very successfully- i decided if i cud produce this 4yr old 2 jump round a 1m track consistently & well i wud be happy. Ive just found out im pregnant, tired & very sick.. So he too is having a well deserved break- hes 7 now, not only has he jumped out of BN & D, qualified scope every year, given me the confidence to jump NC & clr!! But hes is the safest most amazing horse i e ever had the pleasure of, he tries his hardest with everything & everything i do with him is fun :-) Hes had 8 poles down i 3yrs, & ive made plenty of mistakes in the ring on our journey & he never holds this against me. Sorry 2hijack ur thread, but wat im trying to say although we have both no doubt workedhard we r both truley lucky to have such horses cone into our lives. Ur boy is stunning by the way- a credit to u. I hope they both enjoy there breaks xx

That is a lovely story, thank you for sharing. Yep a special one comes along once in a while and makes you want to shout about them from the roof tops :). Babies are next on the agenda for my husband to be and myself so could join you at some point on that adventure as well :). Good luck with everything x
 
Lovely, lovely report.
You guys have achieved so much together.
Just look at how much his condition has improved since you've had him too :)

Hope you have a lovely wedding and honeymoon too :)
 
What a lovely boy, and a lovely tribute to him. Nice to see someone taking so much pleasure from every little achievement . All the best for your forthcoming wedding, and may you enjoy many more years with your beautiful boy, you sound full of pride, and so you should be!
 
Lovely post, lovely horse - so true what you say, there is nothing more rewarding knowing that you have brought on and produced your horse from scratch, through the good times and the bad, the enormous bills and the :eek: moments when you think you should just give up and buy a schoolmaster. For as long as I can remember I have been telling myself the next horse i buy will be a bit older, been there and done it so i can go straight out and have some fun - and then i end up with another baby. Enjoy your break and hope the sun shines for your wedding and you have a fabulous honeymoon! :)
 
I just love him. Well done!

Be proud of yourself and a have a fab wedding/honeymoon :)

Looking forward to comp report in a couple of months x
 
lovely post!!

I can definitely relate to wanting a horse that you can say 'oh go on then, put my name down, we'll have a bash at it'.... and like you got with a 4yo ex racer!

Well done you!!!!!!

V x
 
Ex-racer ponies are the best :D Al and Reg are actually sickening to watch together- they're like one of those couples who finish each others sentences and always commit PDAs in public (not literally, mind!). So cute... You and Jae are such an awesome team, and I bet the time off is good for him too. Reg comes back so much more grown up after his holidays :)
 
lovely post!!

I can definitely relate to wanting a horse that you can say 'oh go on then, put my name down, we'll have a bash at it'.... and like you got with a 4yo ex racer!

Well done you!!!!!!

V x

Thank you! Thats just what he is like. I give him a new task wondering what might happen (as you do with young'uns) and then he just does it and i'm like 'oh, well that was easy!!'. I do wonder if he has been here in a past life before sometimes!
 
Ex-racer ponies are the best :D Al and Reg are actually sickening to watch together- they're like one of those couples who finish each others sentences and always commit PDAs in public (not literally, mind!). So cute... You and Jae are such an awesome team, and I bet the time off is good for him too. Reg comes back so much more grown up after his holidays :)

Aw! I love Reg and Al, they are def kindred spirits!
 
Does anyone know how you do multiple quotes in the same post? I feel like I want to respond to every person but not sure how!
Thanks for all your comments :D xx
 
What a lovely post, you've really made me smile! You and your horse are lucky to have each other as you sound like a fantastic team :-)
 
You deserve to feel happy :D Jae is lovely and is every thing I would want in a horse and you two have achieved loads together.

Have a lovely wedding and honey moon.
 
Like Lolo said, ex-racers are the best!!

I've really loved watching J's story on here & putting it all into one post really does show what a fantastic horse he is & how he's come on over the time you've had him.

Here's to more of the same with him in the future & good luck for the wedding. I hope you have a lovely day & a fantastic honeymoon.
 
Lovely post and, for me, you sum up what it is all about...the partnership where both horse and rider get the best out of each other..even if that's just learning together from the not so good times....Good luck with the wedding....
 
A lovely post! I love reading your posts about Jae (and my blood still runs cold when I remember you were were minded to sell him - soooo glad you didn't). You two are very lucky to have found each other and I look forward to reading lots more happy reports after your wedding and honeymoon! Good luck with both of those and have a fantastic day!
 
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