Jesstickle
Well-Known Member
I know it isn't really a CR thing but I don't want consoling pats on the back, I want sound advice and a kick up the backside and that seemed more likely here.
Perhaps people remember my mare rearing up and coming over on me. That's what started all this off. She's gone to my friend for boot camp and is going really well. I rode her at the weekend and was relatively happy up there on her. So that's good I suppose. I know it's because my friend was there that I felt confident and that I'd struggle on my own so that's where she is staying for the time being.
BUT
it seems to have had a knock on effect with BH and it's getting worse rather than better. He's had a long lay off with injury and all we're meant to be doing is hacking in walk. To begin with I was just insanely happy to be back on him but then we got chased by a couple of dogs, nothing happened but it worried me, then he had a mini bronk the other day in company, again nothing really happened though. Now when I hack I get tenser and tenser and my heart pounds. Today my friend took him out ride and lead as lead horse and he properly carted her back to the stables. This is very unlike him but I am bricking it sitting here thinking that I have to ride him tonight. I've never been scared of anything before this year and certainly I've never been scared of him. I rode him last night and didn't really hear a peep out of him. I can't go in the school or lunge as we're still only meant to be walking so don't know what to do.
I just don't seem to be able to get back to where I was in terms of my bottle
OH tells me I have the yips. I just want to sell up at the moment. How on earth do people get a grip with nerves? There must be some sort of practical solution.
Perhaps people remember my mare rearing up and coming over on me. That's what started all this off. She's gone to my friend for boot camp and is going really well. I rode her at the weekend and was relatively happy up there on her. So that's good I suppose. I know it's because my friend was there that I felt confident and that I'd struggle on my own so that's where she is staying for the time being.
BUT
it seems to have had a knock on effect with BH and it's getting worse rather than better. He's had a long lay off with injury and all we're meant to be doing is hacking in walk. To begin with I was just insanely happy to be back on him but then we got chased by a couple of dogs, nothing happened but it worried me, then he had a mini bronk the other day in company, again nothing really happened though. Now when I hack I get tenser and tenser and my heart pounds. Today my friend took him out ride and lead as lead horse and he properly carted her back to the stables. This is very unlike him but I am bricking it sitting here thinking that I have to ride him tonight. I've never been scared of anything before this year and certainly I've never been scared of him. I rode him last night and didn't really hear a peep out of him. I can't go in the school or lunge as we're still only meant to be walking so don't know what to do.
I just don't seem to be able to get back to where I was in terms of my bottle
OH tells me I have the yips. I just want to sell up at the moment. How on earth do people get a grip with nerves? There must be some sort of practical solution.