i think i'm just being a loser, but I'm still quite upset/ confused...

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Hi,

Im not really sure what to do, there seems to have been an upset at my yard involving me without me knowing whats gone on.

No one talks to me or rides with me and it has become apparent on Facebook they all went out socialising last night.

What should I do? It is making me quite miserable!!

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Ask them all what the problem is... in a nice enough manner though... only thing you can do?
Especially if you don't appear to know what you might have done to upset someone
 
this happened to me on one yard although there was still one person that I was very good friends with. It basically boiled down to a misunderstanding and other people bitching. Unfortunately these things happen at yards.

My advice would be to try and confront someone, maybe the person you were closest to before this all seemed to happen. Is there someone that manages or is incharge of the yard? I would definately recommend talking to them especially as this is making you upset!!!

good luck and remember no one is worth getting upset over especially if you havnt done anything wrong. Enjoy your horse and if things get really aawkward you may have to move on for your own happiness but try and resolve things first.
 
I'll try and find one of them to ask, the only problem with that being whenever I appear they all (in a group or singles) seem to disappear!

Such drama
 
I know it hurts but get a life outside the yard. Go there just for your horse and reduce your expectations that you're there to socialise with any living thing but your horse. Be courteous to people, but not over friendly.

Failing that, change Yards and then do the same.
 
I agree with Achinghips. Go to the yard, focus on your horse and have fun.
If they start talking to you, fair enough. if not, then it's their loss.

If you really have to know, can you facebook politely, one of the people you were closest to (or phone them if you have their number)?
 
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