Sunny08
Well-Known Member
Here is a brief history, my girl is 4.5 yrs old. when she turned 3 she had a freak accident in the stable where someone was walking past with a broom over their shoulder and caught her round the head whilst she was sleeping over the door, she panicked, reared up smacked her head and caused fractured poll and muscle wastage on her neck. It took 3 weeks for her even be able to lift her head up more than 6 inches and 4 months (!!!) before she would let me gently put a headcollar on etc. I was going to break her at 3.5 but ended up leaving it till last summer when she was 4. Once broken she was an angel but really stiff on her left rein - she will hold her head at an odd angle, refuse to flex to the left, etc. I turned her away from September and brought her back into work in January. Throughout this time I have had vets, physios, experienced riders look at her who have all told me they think she is physically fine but has learnt to be worried about the pain.
Hacking out she is fine and overall is a very happy, but when I ride her I just feel like I am pushing her into pain when asking her to flex, bend, etc.
No one involved with her now, apart from myself, saw how much pain this accident caused her, I was told by my vet I would likely lose her and it took months and months to regain trust of the horse I have raised since foal.
I am being criticised (albeit very nicely) for not pushing her hard enough but feel as if I am in a lose, lose situation, physically all the experts tell me she is fine, just has weaker muscles on one side which need building up. Logically I know it will be harder for her to work on her left rein as she is weaker that side and therefore we need to do it, but psychologically I just feel like I am causing her so much pain...
Any ideas or experience in taking this forward??
Hacking out she is fine and overall is a very happy, but when I ride her I just feel like I am pushing her into pain when asking her to flex, bend, etc.
No one involved with her now, apart from myself, saw how much pain this accident caused her, I was told by my vet I would likely lose her and it took months and months to regain trust of the horse I have raised since foal.
I am being criticised (albeit very nicely) for not pushing her hard enough but feel as if I am in a lose, lose situation, physically all the experts tell me she is fine, just has weaker muscles on one side which need building up. Logically I know it will be harder for her to work on her left rein as she is weaker that side and therefore we need to do it, but psychologically I just feel like I am causing her so much pain...
Any ideas or experience in taking this forward??