SaharaS
Well-Known Member
arrgh I spent ages writing an epic & my battery died so you may have escaped ..but here goes again.put the kettle on & grab those slankets...here goes!
After reading about the poor girl this am battling with her Spanish horse,it really opened my eyes up that I may not previously have been told the exact truth about the breed...and may have possibly been about to make a big mistake.
Long story short my health is not good, good days & bad (broke every vertebrae,sternum & had spinal chord damage, resulting in still having severe back pain , fibromyalgia & ME/CFS. Decided to down size and lost one to sudden death aged 7, took me till this dec to muster the courage/sense to sell my 3yr old new forest and thought 4 would be a good easy number..horses have other opinions ofcourse and the herd dynamic is totally pearshaped now...who thought 2 mares & 2 geldings would pose probs...I'm a TB girl & have to say I've been VERY lucky as only two are now ridden(one is 3, one broodmare i had the accident on) (one 25 dressage mare, one 17hh tb gelding.) My only option i think is to sell the 3 yr old (Brief Encounter colt) and the 17hh gelding.. I know from experience, two will not work for me as both mares need a friend while I ride/excercise the other...so as 17hh gelding thinks he's a sabre tooth tiger/rhino hybrid I can't put him with the 3yr old gelding. The two ridden ones i know well enough and have a strong enough bond with that I can ride when i have good days and leave them for a few weeks(even months if really bad in the past at time of accicent) and they don't bat an eyelid & do look after me...yes both thoroughbreds, both raced & I've retrained both....all my horses to date have been like this, so I'm either very good at picking them, or they have just accepted my ways. When the mares were both competing pre my accident I did want to put them in foal & considered an Andalusian...I went for Brief Encounter instead & Supreme Chance before that..but now I know I can't personally take the risk of starting youngsters & bringing them on, I think I'm going to try sell the two boys and find a nice mare. I need to know your experiences...bad and good...if you think I am making a mistake with the breed...(had decided Andalusian better way to go than Lippizaner/Lusitano for calmness)...but I am open to everything you can throw at me. When health allows, I will be looking to compete, just dressage...mainly only school really, in the menage at home as no companion to ride & roads so evil near me... but my are very accepting of it & don't ever seem to get bored...we play schooling to music & each has its favourite genre and songs so its always fun & relaxed learning & bonding time.I can school in fields & adjoining woods & farm to break the monotony if required...I will be offering a long term home /forever home and am keen not to have been suckered in & misled/fed what i wanted to hear...is this the right breed for me? Its all very well reading the websites & asking breeders, but I want to know the day to day, nitty gritty, the troubles & tantrums...the tears & the sucesses...everything you only know by owning the breed for yourself...I would ideally want a mare(unless it is a VERY kindly mare-like(gay gelding!) gentle gelding but I would take some persuading as this is a big step out of TB's!)ideally 6 so it will be started but that I can still teach her & learn/bond together...prob no more than 8 tho age not set in stone for the right horse....have had a hanoverian x TB given to me to compete pre accident and I loved him but would never have wanted to own him..really stroppy tendancy ridden & had a bit of a streak which I understand is the hanoverian in him..he was very good at temper tantrums & held grudges...could do without this again...the stud i was considering years back was said to be the creme de la creme of uk andalusians, but I'm sure every owner would argue theirs are better! Well done for staying awake...thank you for all your help.....hope I've not been totally mislead & they are as nice as i had hoped....
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After reading about the poor girl this am battling with her Spanish horse,it really opened my eyes up that I may not previously have been told the exact truth about the breed...and may have possibly been about to make a big mistake.
Long story short my health is not good, good days & bad (broke every vertebrae,sternum & had spinal chord damage, resulting in still having severe back pain , fibromyalgia & ME/CFS. Decided to down size and lost one to sudden death aged 7, took me till this dec to muster the courage/sense to sell my 3yr old new forest and thought 4 would be a good easy number..horses have other opinions ofcourse and the herd dynamic is totally pearshaped now...who thought 2 mares & 2 geldings would pose probs...I'm a TB girl & have to say I've been VERY lucky as only two are now ridden(one is 3, one broodmare i had the accident on) (one 25 dressage mare, one 17hh tb gelding.) My only option i think is to sell the 3 yr old (Brief Encounter colt) and the 17hh gelding.. I know from experience, two will not work for me as both mares need a friend while I ride/excercise the other...so as 17hh gelding thinks he's a sabre tooth tiger/rhino hybrid I can't put him with the 3yr old gelding. The two ridden ones i know well enough and have a strong enough bond with that I can ride when i have good days and leave them for a few weeks(even months if really bad in the past at time of accicent) and they don't bat an eyelid & do look after me...yes both thoroughbreds, both raced & I've retrained both....all my horses to date have been like this, so I'm either very good at picking them, or they have just accepted my ways. When the mares were both competing pre my accident I did want to put them in foal & considered an Andalusian...I went for Brief Encounter instead & Supreme Chance before that..but now I know I can't personally take the risk of starting youngsters & bringing them on, I think I'm going to try sell the two boys and find a nice mare. I need to know your experiences...bad and good...if you think I am making a mistake with the breed...(had decided Andalusian better way to go than Lippizaner/Lusitano for calmness)...but I am open to everything you can throw at me. When health allows, I will be looking to compete, just dressage...mainly only school really, in the menage at home as no companion to ride & roads so evil near me... but my are very accepting of it & don't ever seem to get bored...we play schooling to music & each has its favourite genre and songs so its always fun & relaxed learning & bonding time.I can school in fields & adjoining woods & farm to break the monotony if required...I will be offering a long term home /forever home and am keen not to have been suckered in & misled/fed what i wanted to hear...is this the right breed for me? Its all very well reading the websites & asking breeders, but I want to know the day to day, nitty gritty, the troubles & tantrums...the tears & the sucesses...everything you only know by owning the breed for yourself...I would ideally want a mare(unless it is a VERY kindly mare-like(gay gelding!) gentle gelding but I would take some persuading as this is a big step out of TB's!)ideally 6 so it will be started but that I can still teach her & learn/bond together...prob no more than 8 tho age not set in stone for the right horse....have had a hanoverian x TB given to me to compete pre accident and I loved him but would never have wanted to own him..really stroppy tendancy ridden & had a bit of a streak which I understand is the hanoverian in him..he was very good at temper tantrums & held grudges...could do without this again...the stud i was considering years back was said to be the creme de la creme of uk andalusians, but I'm sure every owner would argue theirs are better! Well done for staying awake...thank you for all your help.....hope I've not been totally mislead & they are as nice as i had hoped....