sue_ellen
Well-Known Member
I don't think I have ever posted here before but I would really appreciate opinions/advice. Appollogies in advance - I think this will be long!
First of all, I am 57 and retired. Gave up riding 4 years ago due to arthritic knees and spine. I am not an experienced dog owner but I have had Poppy , who is a Lhasa Apso, since she was a puppy. She is now 9yo.
We go for a long walk (2 - 3 miles) every day, and she is as fit as a fiddle and definitely does not look her age. I absolutely adore her and our walks are my main form of excercise.
I would love another dog, in particular a Border Collie. We had them at home when I was a kid. I would love to expand the sort of "hobby" side of dog ownership, and I particularly love the idea of Dog Agillity. I think it would be great to get involved with other like minded people, maybe join a club, maybe even get the chance to compete - you never know!
I have several things holding me back - is it fair to Poppy? She's not terribly fond of other dogs but is ok if they leave her alone. I have quite a few friends who have introduced a new puppy to an older dog and they have all done it successfully.
And would it be fair to my new puppy? If Poppy hated it I would have to find it a new home and I would be upset and also feel guilty for making the mistake and upsetting them both which is the last thing i would want to do.
And would I be able to give a Border Collie the right kind of life? I go for long walks but occasionally I perhaps don't feel like it and go for a shorter one - would a collie be ok with that sometimes? And I haven't got a huge garden to play in either - only a small one - although there are parks and footpaths close which Poppy and I love to explore.
I've been advised to get a puppy rather than an adult dog - is that the best thing?
Or shall I just stick with Poppy and take up knitting instead!?
All thoughts and advice greatly appreciated - I just dont want to do the wrong thing.
First of all, I am 57 and retired. Gave up riding 4 years ago due to arthritic knees and spine. I am not an experienced dog owner but I have had Poppy , who is a Lhasa Apso, since she was a puppy. She is now 9yo.
We go for a long walk (2 - 3 miles) every day, and she is as fit as a fiddle and definitely does not look her age. I absolutely adore her and our walks are my main form of excercise.
I would love another dog, in particular a Border Collie. We had them at home when I was a kid. I would love to expand the sort of "hobby" side of dog ownership, and I particularly love the idea of Dog Agillity. I think it would be great to get involved with other like minded people, maybe join a club, maybe even get the chance to compete - you never know!
I have several things holding me back - is it fair to Poppy? She's not terribly fond of other dogs but is ok if they leave her alone. I have quite a few friends who have introduced a new puppy to an older dog and they have all done it successfully.
And would it be fair to my new puppy? If Poppy hated it I would have to find it a new home and I would be upset and also feel guilty for making the mistake and upsetting them both which is the last thing i would want to do.
And would I be able to give a Border Collie the right kind of life? I go for long walks but occasionally I perhaps don't feel like it and go for a shorter one - would a collie be ok with that sometimes? And I haven't got a huge garden to play in either - only a small one - although there are parks and footpaths close which Poppy and I love to explore.
I've been advised to get a puppy rather than an adult dog - is that the best thing?
Or shall I just stick with Poppy and take up knitting instead!?
All thoughts and advice greatly appreciated - I just dont want to do the wrong thing.