My OH would come home to a beautiful, flower-filled house with the smell of fresh apple pie cooking, a nicely chilled glass of wine handed to him by a well groomed woman smelling of something fragrant.
He gets a mud covered woman smelling of horses rushing in shouting 'sorry, took longer than I thought. Erm.. I would have cooked but... and yes, a winter holiday would be great, but I need a new saddle.'
surfing, surf trips in camper van, sailing, mountain biking... oh yeah and holidaying in Australia where my sis lives!
When I didn't have a horse for about 2 months I did those things. But I got my arm twisted into getting another horse! Didn't take much twisting...
But I would probably be a mum by now... and as my clock ticks I am going to have a few tricky decisions to make in the near future.
I'd be less stressed, have a new kitchen and bathroom (instead of putting off cos I can't afford it!) I'd be bored stiff, fat as butter and probably an old wino!!!