marmalade76
Well-Known Member
Very much depends on the horse & rider. If I was riding & schooling someone's horse for free, I wouldn't expect to do any jobs as I'd be improving it. A top comp schoolmaster that I could gain something from I would be happy to work in exchange for however many hours added up to the cost of sharing it.
When my daughter was a toddler I had a fab teenager to ride/help. Very competent & trustworthy, she did jobs on her days but I used to let her ride on my weekdays too. Plus was willing to do horse if I had ever been stuck in an emergency. I got what amounted to free part livery out of it, my pony kept fit & happy to be working/ competing. She got a fab comp pony to have fun with for free & take to comps & shows when she liked. I gave her free lessons on her so pony kept well schooled too. In fairness pony is the type I could have found paying sharers no problem. But liked the girl who at the time couldn't have her own & liked to see pony happy.
Totally agree with the first para, as for the second, I'd happily do the same for the right child. I know what it's like to be pony mad and ponyless and if there was someone who was keen, confident and reasonably competant who was willing to learn and do as they were told I'd be happy to give them a chance, including at PC and competing. But it seems that most teens have an over-inflated opinion of their own ability, think the world owes them a living and (the other thing I've noticed with those looking for rides on FB) over-weight. I have one pony that's not suitable for a nervous novice and another that is not suitable for the over-weight!
As for shares paying, I have not always been keen to ask for/accept payment as I feel it buys them more 'rights'. When I shared with someone who paid a good proportion of the costs, I felt I couldn't always pull her up for things she did with my horse that I wasn't keen on, if that makes sense.