I'm new... with an interesting dilemma I'd love any opinions on

[piebaldsparkle]

Thanks for all the thoughts and opinions, it's been playing on my mind recently but I was struggling to find anyone to talk to about it as I couldn't be sure it wouldn't get back to her and I'd hate it to look like I'd been gossiping behind her back.

No guarantee it won't get get beck to her, this horse world is VERY small and there has been more than one user found on here by the person they were discussing!