Im sorry but Im just sooo fed up :(

Equestrian92

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Ok whens it all gonna get better???
Got 5 horses, 7 on my actual yard, my filly jumped barbed wire fence last week..had 7 stitches and god knows what else, shes on box rest....filly and her brother live out so as you can see this is a pain because Ive had to put 1 of my other horses out at night to keep her brother company. So this has added onto my other long list of vet bills. So Im now doing everything twice in the rain and rubbish weather, Im getting up at stupid o clock.
Personal life.....crap! Broke up with my boyfriend last week...:( am sad.
I work 2 jobs and have no money for myself and Im just sooooo fed up, my poor gdad had his cancer op the other day and life is just s***. A big bottle of rose' if you made it this far
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You poor thing -but you know it will get better. Just go down to your yard and give your horses a big cuddle, I find a good cry into a warm horses neck can make everything feel better (even if it makes me smell all horsey!). Keep your chin up and go have that cuddle!
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Thanks guys..

"Just go down to your yard and give your horses a big cuddle"
I did that the other morning to my boy and he responded with a flying headbutt !!! Nice aye...maybe I should take it up with my mare, she may be nice, thank you though
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Poor you, what a crap time, can you 'downsize' and get rid of a couple of horses? this is not the time of year to be overhorsed, I have two of my own and look after another three but I get paid to do that so it doesn't seem so bad when you get that money although it is still hard work in this weather
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Big hugs ((()))

These things do tend to hit us at once which makes it a lot harder when we're already feeling down. Echo previous poster, could you downsize at all, this could free up some time and money?
 
Sorry to hear of what a rough time you are having, sounds really naff *big hugs* to you. Sounds like you don't have a moment for yourself which is not good
I am not sure if downsizing is an option, I think you need more time to relax and chill out x
 
I think if I downsize it will make me more sad, I like spending time with them its just hard when my filly is in 24 7 and her brother comes in the day too, when she can go back out it will be much easier. Dont think I could bare to get rid of them, I have time in the evenings...its just one of them times isnt it when everything comes at once, thanks for helping, means a lot x
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O no, sorry to hear that *ooba hug*. Boys are rubbish, you don't need them anyway! What you need is a big box of chocolates, a few bottles of wine and a crappy chick flick! O and a big blanket! I juggled 2 jobs and uni so I know how you feel on that front, you feel so much better when you pack one of them in otherwise you might turn up to the wrong job on the wrong day like I did
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It's horrid when you feel so down. Big hugs for you.
As mrstommylee says, boys are rubbish anyway.
Believe me, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you will find a much better one soon.
I don't drink rose so have mine!
I think your need is greater ATM.
Chin up.There is always a light at the end of that long dark tunnel.
 
Poor you big hug, hope your horsey soon mends, and try not to worry about your grandad, the professionals should be looking after him. Give yourself time before you meet another chap and in a months time the days will be getting longer. Good luck
 
Big hug and hang on in there. We must be due a bit of sun fairly soon and some how that seemsto help. Hope horsey and Grandad both improve very soon.
 
Look on the bright side your filly and her brother are getting use to being apart, which is good for them and very good for you for the future and give your Grandad lots of hugs.
 
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