I'm Useless: Baydale does Aston

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Ok, I may be being a tad melodramatic, but my enthusiasm at getting back into the sport after 8 weeks off has soon been tempered by the frustration of not being able to do it well enough.
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HumungaHorse was over the moon to be at a competition and I swear I saw him stick his tongue out at JP as he was heckling me warming-up. HH squeaked and bounced and was easily encouraged by other horses doing the same, so I decided damage limitation was the name of the game.
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He bounced down the centre line, tripped over a few times (lumpy arenas and big feet do not go hand in hand, or hoof in hoof even
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), had a violent head-shaking fit when a fly dared come near his ear, bounced and swished through both medium canters, then refused to pay attention for our last walk/trot transition and the following halt, swinging his quarters deftly to the right so it looked like we had travers-ed down the centre line.
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Oh well, I was thinking 44 would be about right but was surprised to see he got 34.6, and it probably didn't look as bad on the video as it felt (sensitive? moi?
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BBs and Gina (everyone thinks that Gina's name is "Gina Whobredwilliam" after OH introduced her to all our friends as such
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) and I walked the course: enough to do, I thought: water early on at fence 3, hanging log to corner at 8 and 9, new coffin-ish fence at 15 and skinny triple brush out of second water, but nothing like Belton or Burnham which he'd done with his "other rider".
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A good first-timers course as always.....just as well really as it was MY first time intermediate on him.

There was a delay on the showjumping so even after going up there late there were still 29 to go - I stood and watched and BBs held HH while he entertained himself by headbanging, strange horse. I felt quite sick by that time, but gave myself a good talking-to (after irritating the hell out of BBs and Gina with my "I can't do it" cr@p), got on and warmed-up - the standard 5 fences warm-up - then went down to jump. As you may have gathered, HH is, well huge really (17.3 at the last measure
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), and still very weak for a just 7yo, so showjumping is taking some time to come together. However I felt that I rode a pretty good round, no major panics, he was sharp enough, eye on the fence and really trying for me, so how gutted was I to have four down? Very is an understatement.
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He had the first fence - was having a poo at the time - then the oxer and the upright of the related distance which seemed to catch a few people out, and then rolled the back rail of the last oxer, which was well up to height. He jumped great through the double of uprights and the treble which I thought he might struggle with, and even jumping the second fence whilst disunited he was fine, but the ones he had down he just had behind, and not clouting them, just touching them on the way up. JP's comments were (bearing in mind he didn't see the round) that unfortunately I will have rounds like that while he's getting stronger, but it's still gutting to have that many when you feel like you and the horse have done a half-decent job of riding the track. Patience and practice are what we need I think, so don't write us off quite yet.

Onto happier things, the cross country: I didn't even have a hint of butterflies when I went into the start box, I was just so looking forward to a steady, fun round. HH set sail with the tail swishing, bottom bouncing (his, not mine
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) and generally having a ball. I showjumped a few of the straightforward ones - don't ask me why, but probably because I didn't trust my eye that the stride I'd seen was the right one so decided to add one (always a useful option I find
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) - but the more difficult ones came more easily, if that makes sense. He was fab to the first water, straight as a die through the double of corners, popped the hanging log and then hooned down the bank to the corner, much the same to the logs on the bank and the skinny after, then flew through the coffin without even clocking the ditch. I got him back for the second water, got a nice deep spot for the hedge in, then rode the three strides to the step up but the depth of the water and the drag just made him land up the step a bit flat; we trotted to the skinny brush (good trot being better than flat, flappy canter I decided
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), he popped that and off to the last fence. Lots of "good boys" as we finished and by the time we walked back to the lorry he'd got his breath back. All good then: Baydale happy, HH over the moon (still
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) that he got to do his favourite bit, and great fun was had by all.

So, after much navel-gazing and chats with various peeps, the long and the short of it is that I've only got one of the three parts that really needs some work; I've got to be patient (I'm trying to learn to love the "p" word, but it's hard) and he's a big horse who's going to take time to get it all together, but when it does he'll be fab....not that he's not fab at the moment, but just not quite fab enough (spot the perfectionist).

Tea and scones for anyone who's not nodded off by now.
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Stats are: 34.6, 16 and 16.8 time.
 
I thought you did brilliantly really - well done on that triple brush, the water was really slowing people down and causing problems with people arriving underpowered and the horses saying 'nah, too big thanks'.

It was nice to meet you briefly - HH really is ridiculously large, and I am slightly disheartened by the fact that my excuse for the SJ is always 'he's a big young-ish horse who needs to strengthen up' when in comparison mine is very normal sized and not actually that young any more. I will continue to say it but may also add 'and I am very small even though he is not that huge' onto my excuses!!

Did you do the XC with a head torch?!!
 
Well done, repeat after me, Baydale is not useless!!!
I think we need a British eventing section where you can remove which ever is your weak link, HH and tink can remove showjumping!!
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Well I don't think the 'need for perfection' is ever going to go away and the 'patience' bit isn't generally in my vocab either (so you are excused for that) - but they're your issues not the horses!

In HH's defence, SJ-ing Intermediate size fences in that arena, when you're 17.3 (are you sure that's all he is?!) and the length of the QEII is never going to be easy.

And in your defence (yes I will give you one) - it can't be easy going back in that height after the amount of time you've had off and the type of injury you've had.

So all in all, I'd say that wasn't a bad day tbh. Well done!
 
Thanks SC, yep, he's big alright, he makes the fences look smaller if nothing else. No head torch needed and I was just grateful to get round before that dark cloud came over.
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Marymoo: Baydale is useless, Baydale is useless...
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How about "good things come to those who wait, good things come to those who wait"?
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Thanks m_m, it wasn't a bad day at all, just not as good a day as I'd have liked.....oops, there I go again, I just can't help myself.
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Well done, repeat after me, Baydale is not useless!!!
I think we need a British eventing section where you can remove which ever is your weak link, HH and tink can remove showjumping!!
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Ill join that group
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You mustn't be so ultra competitive (now how many times have I heard that said to me!) Seriously you have a good horse that to be honest in time is going to be good enough to have a couple done and still be well placed and on the days you do have a magic clear then he will be mega competitive. Pretty good result seeing how rusty you must be as well.
 
Baydale you are most definitely not useless! I would be delighted with that result after a couple of months off. I'm sure the SJ will come with time.
 
You took your time posting this didn't you? I had to go and check the scores for myself and then thought, perhaps you hadn't posted because you were too gutted
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Anyways, the good bits are good and the bad bits are , well, rubbish (in your head, not mine!) I think you did a cracking job as your first Int on HH and your first big test since getting back on board, so I'm not at all disheartened with your efforts
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Onwards and upwards
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2 out of 3 is very good, especially on such a big baby. I love the fact that what you thought was a bad test got a mark like that. I wish I could get 10 penalties LESS than I expect...!
stop putting yourself down. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
he is SUCH a classy horse, but you're so used to being ultra competitive that it must be a shock to have to say to yourself "i'm only here for the beer" for a few months...!
also, better to have a round that felt good and will have boosted his confidence, than a horrible argumentative scrappy round, whatever the score, imho.
i'll put my pointiest boots on and come and administer a big motivational kick up the butt if i see any more posts from you containing the word "useless". Grr.
 
Good grief Baydale, which i glanced down the CR board and saw the titles of your two postss i nearly had a heart attack!!!

Firstly i'm glad you're in one piece after the fall off baby!! Secondly it doesn't sound useless at al today!! Good dr, faB xc and not a bad sj at all. Just sounds like one of those round where you don't do anything wrong...the poles just leap out the cups!! Glad you felt confident and it sounds like HH had loads of fun. WELL DONE!!!!!!

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Your not useless & are to competitive (with yourself)
This I must do better. Yes you must bt in time & give HH time! It's along way from that tiny grey matter to them big black things at the end of the dangley bits! LOL!
 
Thanks everyone, I know I need to chill about it all and be patient, and I knew you'd all give me a verbal lashing to that effect. I consider myself well and truly told. *Baydale scuttles off looking sheepish*
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S_J, I'm glad it's not just me that's ultra-competitive then.
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I think it's the fact that you know they can be that drives you to be that way; if he was rubbish then I'd just be happy to go clear xc.

kentisheventer - Brigstock CIC** next, should be a good educational one for him as it's meaty xc there, or so I've heard.

Thanks lizzieb, I'm sure it will but is it so wrong of me to want it NOW?!
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wizoz - you know me, I post the good and the bad, and anyway, HH knows his fan club need updates.
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Thanks for not being disheartened with my efforts, I'll try harder next time.

kerilli - this post was a bit tongue in cheek on the use of the word "useless", but I thought it might amuse/delight some people one way or another. May I keep the motivation butt-kicking in reserve for when I really need it please?
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AR - Gina did say that on another day the poles might have stayed in the cups, but I think I need a horse with smaller feet for that to happen! Sorry if I gave you heart failure.
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k9h - so true. But he was trying to get the black things in the air, well, when he wasn't squeaking and bouncing and having fun during the round.
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If that's useless, then I fancy being useless myself!

Although know how you feel having high expectations/standards myself. Sounds like it was an excellent day overall though
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It's human nature to want it now but it sounds like HH just needs some time to figure out where his feet are!

At the moment I would be happy to just have something to event as both of ours are off games
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Well done BD, great to have you back evening and the way you talk about HH always makes me grin
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So would you recommend Aston as possibly my first and Safs first ever Int?
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If you're useless then there's really no hope for the rest of us, and be a bit kinder to yourself after six weeks laid up.

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Well done BD and HH - first intermediate milestone completed
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Rest assured you are still my HHO hero
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Well done and give HH a hug from me
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I knew I could rely on you to massage both our egos.
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Poor you lizzieb, are they going to be off for long?

Saf - HH does have that entertainment value, day in day out.
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Definitely do Aston as yours and Saf's first, it always seems to ride well without too many
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Well done, know how you feel about the sj - that back rail on the oxer spent a lot of time on the ground in the novice too
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My 19yo mare strained her tendon for third time last summer so is retired to hack and do dressage.

Sister's horse went lame on Tuesday evening before I was due to event him on Wednesday
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He's got a bit of swelling on the inside of his front leg just below his knee so he's off to the vets on Monday. I'm thinking it might be check ligament but we'll find out then.

So I'm already looking for a project! Mum says she will pay if I have a 14.2 to bring on ready for my sister to take over
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Hmmm I have a feeling that my 'useless' is truly in a different league to your 'useless' - shall we have a competition for it?
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Well done
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as kerilli said, 2 out of 3 ain't bad
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He sounds lovely, but no idea how you hold all 17.3 of him together! Legs of steel, woman!
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Useless would be cocking up all 3 phases, then crashing the lorry on the way home. Wish I'd filmed some of the CIC* sj for you from Minderhout this weekend, then you would feel like Markus Ehning, swear to god!
 
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