Interesting article on weight of riders.....good read

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Rider to Horse Weight Ratio Studies Bring Back Bad Memories
One of the most horrific moments of my young life happened when I ran up to the pony rides in the TG&Y parking lot, so happy to even be near a horse, and the man took one look at me, and instead of the normal plucking me up to plop me on a fat little pony tethered to a horse walker type contraption for my five minutes of utter bliss, he said "Nope, you are too big." My world was crushed. I had been made fun of at school for being fat, which hurt, but not like this hurt. I don't know if he meant I was just too big in general or if he was saying I was fat, but either way, it hurt. There was no explanation, just the curt manner and finality of his statement.

Today, I am still a "Fuller Filly" but thanks to Nikki and riding, I am a healthy and not as "full" as I could be without riding. I still have the same hang ups as that slightly over weight child along with a million others. I've lost 70 lbs in the past few years, and even though my body was smaller and I was wearing a more socially acceptable clothing size, I was still a "fat girl" in my head, thanks to years of kids being kids, my mom putting me on endless misinformed diets and my now ex-husband telling me I was lucky to have him and that he'd love me more if I weighed less. (Just for the record, I lost a bunch of weight then too and then I left him.)

My point in all this rambling is that there is a subject that is going around in rider's circles that is hitting close to home. The subject is rider to horse weight ratio.

There are a few schools of thought on this issue. Back home, you can see huge cowboys in loads of gear with huge saddles riding slight Arabs, Morgans, Quarter Horses, Appaloosas, all manner of horses. The horses are gleaming and healthy and winning awards and nobody is telling the cowboy that all this time they have been injuring their horse's back due to their weight. The cowboy would probably punch them or shoot them or something. Another view is from the racing industry where the jockeys are super lightweight and weight is carefully monitored. And you bet this isn't for the welfare of the horse. It's all about the money the horse will win if he's not too weighed down to run faster than the other horses. I also like to think of the Mongolian horses carrying their man-sized riders, trotting across the steppes.

Then here in the UK you have the English point of view. A lot of resources quote that a horse can carry up to 20% of his body weight (including the rider, rider's clothing and tack) safely. This study, says that the limit can be up to 25% There has been a very silly report lately that claimed that now they believe that a horse can only perform optimally if he carries 10% of his weight and anything over 15% is cruelty and will cause all sorts of damage such as lameness and back issues. This means that my (approx.) 1500 lb. horse, who is a draft cross, can only carry a 150 lb. rider, oh and don't forget the tack and clothes, so more like a 130 lb. rider. My horse is nearly as wide as she is tall (and she's 16.2 so she's not short) so if you have ever been around horses, you would know that this is absolutely stupid. This study claims to be only stating this for the horse's welfare. Well, think about it, the study states that one in twenty horses is carrying more than 10% of body weight. What happens to those 19 horses when they can no longer be ridden by their owners? Will they be sold to a bunch of thin people? Not likely, if there was some evil world where this 10% thing was enforced, I bet there would be a load more horses in sanctuaries and even going to slaughter. And besides, have you ever seen some thin person that was completely unbalanced and jabbing a horse in the mouth? I bet you have. And I bet you've seen a "fuller filly" that has the lightest of hands and a beautifully balanced seat. The study didn't take that into account.

Thank goodness there are still some people with common sense in the world. This article made a great point. Please click the link and have a read. A vet says that even jockeys would break the 10% rule in most cases. And to quote someone with some common sense from the article:

Sarah Blackburn, owner of Ravensteed Equestrian Centre in Belfast said a rider's ability and fitness level should be taken into account when choosing a mount. ''The rider's ability, the type of work the horse is asked to do and the duration will also affect how much weight it can comfortably carry,'' she said. ''An unfit, beginner rider who is lacking in balance will damage a horse much quicker and to a greater degree than an experienced rider with good balance.''

Another voice of reason and one of my heroes, Suzanne Wild, Fuller Filly in Chief, founder of Fuller Fillies riding clothing, had this to say:

I would love to see the research behind this article; it IS and ALWAYS has been the case that the rider should aim to weigh no more than 20% of their horse's weight (and the rider's weight should include their saddle). This information can quickly be accredited by visiting the BHS website - and their information has the backing of all of the specialists in Equine Health such as McTimmony & Bowen...
I worry about an article that has inaccuracies within the first few lines!

Let's think about this - our relationship with horses stems from Knights of Old riding them into battle. All men (and therefore generally heavy boned), they wore suits of armour that weighed at least 2 stone in addition. Did they ride Giant Clydesdales? Super-Percehrons? No, they largely rode Friesians, Arab crosses and small ponies...How different a world we would live in if they had been told they were too heavy to ride their horses into battle!

Most larger riders are super-sensitive about their weight and adjust their riding to compensate - meaning they are lighter riders as a result; a horse's back is far more likely to be damaged by 12 stone of flailing novice flopping around on it than 14 stone of well-controlled Rider!

Dressage is an extremely elitist sport. You have to be rich, have a warmblood, super talented, perfect looking, etc., to be even taken mildly seriously. The rest of us are just playing at it, apparently. This kind of nonsense just gives the super elitist even more ammunition to be super elite. Way to crowd the rest of us out. Guess what, without the other 19 out of 20 riders, you wouldn't have much of a sport.

It's like being back in school again or standing in front of that grizzled cowboy at the TG&Y. The dressage queens and riding school harpies point at me and say "You're too big". Will I ever escape? Probably not. But guess what? I'm going to go ride anyway. And I'd wager that I can ride better than a lot of my smaller counterparts.
 

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Oh gods, not again............Lots of inaccuracies in there, but in general I would say that most people worry too much about the amount of weight their horses can carry comfortably. Equally there are a lot of people who are, quite simply, too fat to ride. So take a realistic view of your weight and ride a suitable horse. If you are too heavy and want to ride, lose the weight.
 

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Yes, it also depends on what you intend to do. It worries me that people who are verging on plump are out eventing, what is about the bigger you are the harder you fall?
Also slim people can be out of balance and ride heavy but won't do the damage that I fear is being done by overweight people. I think the time has come not to stigmatise people who are overweight, I'm no Kate Moss, but to be realistic. People can eat and look how they like, be proud of their stomachs, wear what they like, but not expect to ride a poor horse too.
I think it's only fair to a horse to be as fit, well, supple, balanced, and light as you can be.
If you are overweight, eat less and exercise more.
There are all sorts of support groups, helpers, mentors and so on out there. Eating healthily and exercising well works. Ditch the doughnut.
Interesting how much nutrition is now being taught at world class performance etc, also young riders look pretty fit at the top.
A great friend who runs a riding school has terrible trouble with people lying about what they weigh when the ring up to book lessons, she's then in the embarassing situation of having to say they can't ride.
OK, now I'll now take to the bunker before I'm called fattist and I'm sorry if people find it offensive but I'm on the horse's side.
 

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On a tangent I think a lot of riders (regardless of their weight) have an over inflated opinion of how well and how light they ride. A serious amateur or professional could probably get away with being a bit heavier but the average pleasure rider will not ride "light" enough to make a difference.
 

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Oh gods, not again............Lots of inaccuracies in there, but in general I would say that most people worry too much about the amount of weight their horses can carry comfortably. Equally there are a lot of people who are, quite simply, too fat to ride. So take a realistic view of your weight and ride a suitable horse. If you are too heavy and want to ride, lose the weight.

Completely this! ^
People need to be sensible and if they are doing so they need to worry less!!
...and I agree, some people are to heavy to ride horses, it's common sense! If they really want to ride perhaps they could loose weight not just get bigger, stockier horse and ask that to carry then instead.

We spend so much time getting our horses fit, supple, strong, we control how much they eat, how much excersize they do and their weight is our responsibility. Why do we not treat ourselves with the same discipline? If we expect these things of our horses, is it not only fair that we conform to the same standards?

I'm not against anything, I beleive in this day and age their should be no stigma around weight, eat what you want, look how you want to, be proud of who you are. ...but except that if you are a certain weight, and you want to stay as you are can you really, being fair and realistic, ask a horse to carry you, and even more so, perform well?
Of course everyone is equal, but not everyone is the same and at the end of the day it's the well being of a living creature that we have to take into consideration.

In addition, while a thin or healthy person may be unbalanced and a overweight person may not, I think the damage done by the overweight rider would be more severe than that of the thin one, despite their riding ability...
I know if it came down to it I would rather a light unbalenced rider on my horse the a heavy balenced one. As an example even good rider loose their balence from time to time, if 8/9st of rider has a wobble and a rider nearly double that does the same, is the pull on the horses back is not going to far more severe?

I find it ridiculous that a riding instructor, horse owner, pony ride person, riding school propertier, cannot tell someone they are too heavy to ride without being called a 'fattest' or accused for bullying, at the end of the day it's about horse welfare and I am on the side of the horse!
 

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Not sure exactly what my horse weighs but he's a 15.2 lightly build arab x saddlebred. So I'm gonna guess 500kg.
If I weighed 20% of that I'd be 100kg (I'm 5'4" ish and a 22yo woman)
That's 15 stone 10.
Now, he is CAPABLE of carrying this weight. My boyfriend who is 16 stone of muscle and 6 foot has ridden him for a maximum of 10 minutes walking/trotting round the school and he's been perfectly obliging.
Would I be happy for my boy to carry 15 stone + on a regular basis? Jumping, long hacks, galloping etc? Hell no! When I got him I'd put a lot of weight on over Christmas and was horrified to discover I was 10 and a half stone! Quickly joined the gym and I've shifted 1 stone 2lbs but still wanna get down to 8 and a half ish. I think riding is a GREAT incentive to lose weight. I don't see why people are so sensitive and obstinate about being a "fuller filly!" I'm sorry but it's not something to be proud of. It's fine if your horse can carry that weight but I seriously think if you're a woman and you're over a certain weight and you have no health issues etc. then just hit the gym, go on a diet and shift the weight. It's really not that hard, you just need a bit of willpower.
 

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I actually think that's a load of nonsense, and I think the 20% rule is a load of nonsense as well... according to that my horse could carry 17st!!! My horse can NOT carry that weight, nor should I ever expect her to as she would break, she's a 16.1hh athletic ISH, and to be honest, I'm not sure how many horses would carry that weight and it not cause some wear and tear on them at the very least. Remember they aren't designed to carry us in the first place! 15% is much more realistic for most people (INCLUDING tack etc) but still that could well be too heavy for a horse depending on build etc.

I was politely told by my trainer that in order to keep my horse sound I should lose weight, and I only weigh 13% of my horses's weight including tack... I didn't get offended, I went on a diet, my horse is my number 1 priority!!

I see lots of people too heavy for their horses and it's the horse that suffers, and why?! Just because people are too scared to offend the rider or the rider cant admit the truth... I think vets should be more honest about what horses can and cant cope with. If a horse is lame and the rider is too heavy for the horse then it doesn't take a genius to work out why that might be.

On the note of Fuller Fillies clothing... someone who is a size 16-24, should NOT be on a horse!
 
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Oh gods, not again............Lots of inaccuracies in there, but in general I would say that most people worry too much about the amount of weight their horses can carry comfortably. Equally there are a lot of people who are, quite simply, too fat to ride. So take a realistic view of your weight and ride a suitable horse. If you are too heavy and want to ride, lose the weight.

This with bells on - what has happened to common sense.
 

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I actually think that's a load of nonsense, and I think the 20% rule is a load of nonsense as well... according to that my horse could carry 17st!!! My horse can NOT carry that weight, nor should I ever expect her to as she would break, she's a 16.1hh athletic ISH, and to be honest, I'm not sure how many horses would carry that weight and it not cause some wear and tear on them at the very least. Remember they aren't designed to carry us in the first place! 15% is much more realistic for most people (INCLUDING tack etc) but still that could well be too heavy for a horse depending on build etc.

I was politely told by my trainer that in order to keep my horse sound I should lose weight, and I only weigh 13% of my horses's weight including tack... I didn't get offended, I went on a diet, my horse is my number 1 priority!!

I see lots of people too heavy for their horses and it's the horse that suffers, and why?! Just because people are too scared to offend the rider or the rider cant admit the truth... I think vets should be more honest about what horses can and cant cope with. If a horse is lame and the rider is too heavy for the horse then it doesn't take a genius to work out why that might be.

On the note of Fuller Fillies clothing... someone who is a size 16-24, should NOT be on a horse!

Sorry don't agree with your 16-24 size not being able to be on a horse. Size 16 is not that big really. Also its not just about the weight - its also about the build of the horse - good strong bone, strong and wide loins and short backs are the best.
 

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Fuller filly = f*t female! It's infantilising to call someone a filly, especially (myself included) are well into later decades.
The old hunter weights I believe went up to heavyweight, which was 14st 7lbs and over, if I remember correctly. That included a heavy old saddle. And these were seriously big powerful horses.
 

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I think there is too much stressing over weight of riders - obviously its important and should not be excessive, but what is often overlooked is that the horse should be a healthy weight also.

I know that our 13.3 pony can vary 20 kilos between being trim (380 KG) and rounded (400KG) when he is rounded he is not massively fat, but the difference between the right weight and being rounded is actually just over three stone ?? and represents the difference between a 9st rider and a 12 stone one.

I think the results from the Tevis study (endurance) was that horse condition score was more significant that rider weight also.
Food for thought ? (quite literally!!)

Further info on weight carrying

http://horsetype.com/text.php?id=98
 

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Most things needing athletic ability are done better when you carry less excess fat riding is no different .
Of course it's better for the horse to be carrying a slim fit rider it's common sense .
You need to be realistic is that person telling me I am to heavy for your horse just being blunt .
And to suggest we should base our welfare decisions on the when horses carried us in battle when their lives where short and brutish well frankly that just plain silly .
Your comments on dressage are ludicrous, top dressage riders are elite athletes and have the the bodies to match and horses whose talents match the amazing skills of the riders .
Below elite level the classes have many many shall I say ,more normally athletic people enjoying competing and training their horses .
Frankly you don't sound a lot of fun to be around so I think dressage will probably manage fine without you.
I will state for the record I am a larger rider myself however I am not too heavy for either of my horses because like my clothes I bought them to fit me .
 

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Not sure exactly what my horse weighs but he's a 15.2 lightly build arab x saddlebred. So I'm gonna guess 500kg.
If I weighed 20% of that I'd be 100kg (I'm 5'4" ish and a 22yo woman)
That's 15 stone 10.
Now, he is CAPABLE of carrying this weight. My boyfriend who is 16 stone of muscle and 6 foot has ridden him for a maximum of 10 minutes walking/trotting round the school and he's been perfectly obliging.
Would I be happy for my boy to carry 15 stone + on a regular basis? Jumping, long hacks, galloping etc? Hell no! When I got him I'd put a lot of weight on over Christmas and was horrified to discover I was 10 and a half stone! Quickly joined the gym and I've shifted 1 stone 2lbs but still wanna get down to 8 and a half ish. I think riding is a GREAT incentive to lose weight. I don't see why people are so sensitive and obstinate about being a "fuller filly!" I'm sorry but it's not something to be proud of. It's fine if your horse can carry that weight but I seriously think if you're a woman and you're over a certain weight and you have no health issues etc. then just hit the gym, go on a diet and shift the weight. It's really not that hard, you just need a bit of willpower.


If it is so easy why are people not doing it ?? (just a question to put out there ?)
 

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On the note of Fuller Fillies clothing... someone who is a size 16-24, should NOT be on a horse![/QUOTE]

Mmmmmmmmmmmm size 16 woman ( women that's who the clothes are aimed at) should not ride!!!!!!! At size 16 I weigh less then a reasonably sized man of say 6ft 4", so are we now saying that men should not ride. That is quite a sweeping statement Louise.
I am 5ft I am a size 16-18, ( I have boobs don't you know) maybe I should put my cobs up for sale tomorrow, oh yeah one is old with arthritis better to shoot him.
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My view is if you can't get a saddle to fit the horse and the riders bottom then the rider is too big for that horse. I am size 18, my saddle still holds my ass properly and it fits my horse. I still fit into 'standard' sized/off the peg riding clothes and boots - the moment I don't then I am too big for my horse. As it is, I am conscious that my saddle ways a ton and so I am currently loosing weight so that don't feel as if I am pony-squishing or not. That and I have a lovely caldene tweed that I got in a sale and I really want to wear for the breed show in July :D
 

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Fuller filly = f*t female! It's infantilising to call someone a filly, especially (myself included) are well into later decades.
The old hunter weights I believe went up to heavyweight, which was 14st 7lbs and over, if I remember correctly. That included a heavy old saddle. And these were seriously big powerful horses.


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As a company they are not going to sell much if they piss off their client base are they!?
 

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If it is so easy why are people not doing it ?? (just a question to put out there ?)

They're lazy? Don't really know how to on their own? Don't have time? I don't know why they're not, I've done it pretty easily (I am a determined, stubborn person however) I was one of the fat kids at school. Bullied for being fat, having spots etc. I saw a video of me playing in my band and cried, thinking I looked god awful and how could anyone love me etc (I know; OTT teenage first world problems)
So I read up on how to lose weight. Tracked my calories, started cycling to see my horse instead of getting a lift in the car, rode more, walked more, ate less and I went from 11.5 stone to 8 stone 8 in about 6 months. This was when I was 18.
Last year I put on about 2 stone again so in the process of losing it in the same way really, only now my horse is a short walk away so joined the gym to replace my cycling. I also have a job where I can't sit down all day so I walk around a lot.
For me anyway, it IS easy. But I do have to put my mind to it. If I do it half heartedly, I just give up and go back to drinking too much red wine and feasting on kebabs and being a lazy slob. Then the pounds pile back on.
 

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On the note of Fuller Fillies clothing... someone who is a size 16-24, should NOT be on a horse!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm size 16 woman ( women that's who the clothes are aimed at) should not ride!!!!!!! At size 16 I weigh less then a reasonably sized man of say 6ft 4", so are we now saying that men should not ride. That is quite a sweeping statement Louise.
I am 5ft I am a size 16-18, ( I have boobs don't you know) maybe I should put my cobs up for sale tomorrow, oh yeah one is old with arthritis better to shoot him.
This fun .....keep it up[/QUOTE]

Well it's just ridiculous to say someone size sixteen should not be riding as you say there would hardly be a normal size man who could get on a horse .
 

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On the note of Fuller Fillies clothing... someone who is a size 16-24, should NOT be on a horse!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm size 16 woman ( women that's who the clothes are aimed at) should not ride!!!!!!! At size 16 I weigh less then a reasonably sized man of say 6ft 4", so are we now saying that men should not ride. That is quite a sweeping statement Louise.
I am 5ft I am a size 16-18, ( I have boobs don't you know) maybe I should put my cobs up for sale tomorrow, oh yeah one is old with arthritis better to shoot him.
This fun .....keep it up[/QUOTE]

Yeah to be fair I don't think we should judge a horse's weight carrying capacity on his rider's clothes size! It's a bit misleading considering you may be a particularly well-endowed woman but actually quite lightweight
 

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They're lazy? Don't really know how to on their own? Don't have time? I don't know why they're not, I've done it pretty easily (I am a determined, stubborn person however) I was one of the fat kids at school. Bullied for being fat, having spots etc. I saw a video of me playing in my band and cried, thinking I looked god awful and how could anyone love me etc (I know; OTT teenage first world problems)
So I read up on how to lose weight. Tracked my calories, started cycling to see my horse instead of getting a lift in the car, rode more, walked more, ate less and I went from 11.5 stone to 8 stone 8 in about 6 months. This was when I was 18.
Last year I put on about 2 stone again so in the process of losing it in the same way really, only now my horse is a short walk away so joined the gym to replace my cycling. I also have a job where I can't sit down all day so I walk around a lot.
For me anyway, it IS easy. But I do have to put my mind to it. If I do it half heartedly, I just give up and go back to drinking too much red wine and feasting on kebabs and being a lazy slob. Then the pounds pile back on.

PC it sounds as though you have done really well, and you should be proud though I would never underestimate how difficult things can be for others, and unless you have insight into their lives it can be impossible to understand - you are still young...and the majority of people are slim at this age.
After a couple of children, a sedentary job, lack of sleep (see children!) and no time to exercise, due to doing F/T job, looking after horses and children, taking children to their clubs, facilitating their friendships (oh and housework also while working F/T) things can be very different.

Also women do not tend to go from slim to overweight overnight - often this is a slow process where you are so busy looking after the needs of others that you put yourself last (in terms of both exercise and diet) the weight can go on and you hardly notice as you have little time to consider yourself...

It sounds as though you are able to concentrate your energies on yourself and have some time to do this - you are right - it can be easy under theses circumstances - I would be wary of the see sawing re weight though - the highs can get higher (and the lows can get higher too)
 

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Sorry I didn't mean it to come across that way, I was meaning really that the fuller fillies rider clothing sizes come in sizes 16-24, I agree that size 16 really isn't that big, particularly on top, but getting towards size 20-24, that is big in MY opinion to be riding a horse. Clothing size really has nothing to do with it at all, especially as everyone comes in different shapes and sizes, it was merely a reference to the clothing range sizes.
 

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Personally, I go by a few factors :- 1. The horse braces itself in anticipation of you mounting. 2. It's knees buckle after you have mounted. 3. After 100 metres at walk, it's breathing heavily. 4. After 100 metres it refuses to move.😛
 

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PC it sounds as though you have done really well, and you should be proud though I would never underestimate how difficult things can be for others, and unless you have insight into their lives it can be impossible to understand - you are still young...and the majority of people are slim at this age.
After a couple of children, a sedentary job, lack of sleep (see children!) and no time to exercise, due to doing F/T job, looking after horses and children, taking children to their clubs, facilitating their friendships (oh and housework also while working F/T) things can be very different.

Also women do not tend to go from slim to overweight overnight - often this is a slow process where you are so busy looking after the needs of others that you put yourself last (in terms of both exercise and diet) the weight can go on and you hardly notice as you have little time to consider yourself...

It sounds as though you are able to concentrate your energies on yourself and have some time to do this - you are right - it can be easy under theses circumstances - I would be wary of the see sawing re weight though - the highs can get higher (and the lows can get higher too)

Hear, hear, you have just described my life going from a 10/12 as a young lady to a 16/18 as a 40 year old!!! Working 40 hours in an office (getting up at 5:45am to go do ned, getting home at 6pm, doing ned, and house/family stuff for the next day and then collapsing knackered into bed) isn't conducive to going to the gym after work! I'm tall so I don't look a 16/18 and wish I WAS the weight I was when I was young and thought I was "fat", but my TB hack doesn't seem to mind me and has never had a sore back or any lameness issues so as one judge said to me at the last show, to keep doing what we are doing!
 

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Hear, hear, you have just described my life going from a 10/12 as a young lady to a 16/18 as a 40 year old!!! Working 40 hours in an office (getting up at 5:45am to go do ned, getting home at 6pm, doing ned, and house/family stuff for the next day and then collapsing knackered into bed) isn't conducive to going to the gym after work! I'm tall so I don't look a 16/18 and wish I WAS the weight I was when I was young and thought I was "fat", but my TB hack doesn't seem to mind me and has never had a sore back or any lameness issues so as one judge said to me at the last show, to keep doing what we are doing!


I know.... used to be 9st 1lb and 5ft 5, when I only had myself to worry about, and I thought I was fat then....what I would give to be that now Ha Ha
 

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Hear, hear, you have just described my life going from a 10/12 as a young lady to a 16/18 as a 40 year old!!! Working 40 hours in an office (getting up at 5:45am to go do ned, getting home at 6pm, doing ned, and house/family stuff for the next day and then collapsing knackered into bed) isn't conducive to going to the gym after work! I'm tall so I don't look a 16/18 and wish I WAS the weight I was when I was young and thought I was "fat", but my TB hack doesn't seem to mind me and has never had a sore back or any lameness issues so as one judge said to me at the last show, to keep doing what we are doing!

OMG SSG that is totally me…. thinking i was obese at age 16 (10 stone when all my friends were 7 or 8) and now (36 years on) I am more like 13 stone…. I hasten to add with an appropriately solid, sound, fit and well looked after cob…

Nothing terribly enlightening to add except that (a) I don't think enough vets or physios come out and tell riders that they are too heavy for their horse, and they should; and (b) that honestly sometimes (in the appropriate circumstances) the answer is to sell the horse and buy another one that is up to your increased weight, rather than convince yourself you 'will' lose the weight but it never quite happens.
 

sidesaddlegirl

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Yep, live it up while you are young, slim and have no kids! :D

Seriously, I think it's down to every rider to look at themselves and decide if they are right for their horse or not or if their weight is affecting their riding. Riding instructors and judges have all told me how well I go with my TB, she has never had any lameness issues, works wells across her back and is up to the job of showing and dressage. If I were competing in top level show jumping, eventing, etc, then yes, I probably would be a bit too heavy but for that job in order to do it effectively, but for the job we do, we are fine. I'm not heaving after I ride and nor is she, we are fit and capable for what we do.
 
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