Catpawn
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Hello everyone
I bought my first horse for 20 odd years recently, and Gypsy has now been with me for eight weeks. She is a ten year old cob and I want her for happy hacking and a bit of schooling. She has a cobby nature and is quite dominant, pushes boundaries a little, not in any nasty way but she can be quite stubborn about what she wants to do and what she doesn't and we're working on these little issues quite successfully.
Now, my confidence is not that high at the moment as I'm so out of practice at horse owning and riding and so I'm finding hacking out on my own a bit daunting. I go out with others from the yard once or twice a week and I have gone out on my own, but I find myself getting nervous with a little knot of dread in my stomach and worry about transferring my nervousness to the horse, who is largely quite sensible and I don't want to turn her into a nervous wreck, so while I'm finding my feet I tend to ride in the manege and round the farm when there is no-one to hack out with.
I've read up on schooling and am having a lesson on Gypsy once a week so we do vary things a lot, but she isn't really that keen on schooling is quite hard work and prefers hacking out where she is very responsive and keen to go and have a look round at the world.
So the other day, she and I were alone at the yard again and rode in the manege and afterwards, I untacked her in the manege which I don't usually do. On a whim, I wandered around the manege and Gypsy followed me, like a faithful dog would! So I got some cones out in a line and we did some bending with her following me through the cones. She got a bit close a couple of times so I waved my arms back and forth at shoulder height to keep her out of my personal space, and she got the message.
So I got a couple of single trotting poles out and ran over them, and she followed me at the trot and jumped one pole and trotted over the other, so we did the bending again and she followed me, then overtook me at the canter and gave a little buck and seemed to be really enjoying herself and for the first time, I felt a bond and that we were genuinely having fun together in the school!
Is this safe as long as I keep my eye on where she is and how close she is? Could any bad habits develop? Are there any other games I can play with her that anyone else does with their horse please? I've tried Parelli and have to say don't find those 'games' much fun - it just seems to be moving the horses feet around!
Thanks for reading!
I bought my first horse for 20 odd years recently, and Gypsy has now been with me for eight weeks. She is a ten year old cob and I want her for happy hacking and a bit of schooling. She has a cobby nature and is quite dominant, pushes boundaries a little, not in any nasty way but she can be quite stubborn about what she wants to do and what she doesn't and we're working on these little issues quite successfully.
Now, my confidence is not that high at the moment as I'm so out of practice at horse owning and riding and so I'm finding hacking out on my own a bit daunting. I go out with others from the yard once or twice a week and I have gone out on my own, but I find myself getting nervous with a little knot of dread in my stomach and worry about transferring my nervousness to the horse, who is largely quite sensible and I don't want to turn her into a nervous wreck, so while I'm finding my feet I tend to ride in the manege and round the farm when there is no-one to hack out with.
I've read up on schooling and am having a lesson on Gypsy once a week so we do vary things a lot, but she isn't really that keen on schooling is quite hard work and prefers hacking out where she is very responsive and keen to go and have a look round at the world.
So the other day, she and I were alone at the yard again and rode in the manege and afterwards, I untacked her in the manege which I don't usually do. On a whim, I wandered around the manege and Gypsy followed me, like a faithful dog would! So I got some cones out in a line and we did some bending with her following me through the cones. She got a bit close a couple of times so I waved my arms back and forth at shoulder height to keep her out of my personal space, and she got the message.
So I got a couple of single trotting poles out and ran over them, and she followed me at the trot and jumped one pole and trotted over the other, so we did the bending again and she followed me, then overtook me at the canter and gave a little buck and seemed to be really enjoying herself and for the first time, I felt a bond and that we were genuinely having fun together in the school!
Is this safe as long as I keep my eye on where she is and how close she is? Could any bad habits develop? Are there any other games I can play with her that anyone else does with their horse please? I've tried Parelli and have to say don't find those 'games' much fun - it just seems to be moving the horses feet around!
Thanks for reading!