FionaM12
Well-Known Member
Back in the 1970s when I was a young horsey girl I remember often hearing horses being dismissed as being "common". My friend from my childhood, who I rode with, frequently used the term and it generally meant she had no further interest in the horse.
I knew other horsey people who spoke like that, she wasn't alone! I especially came across that attitude amongst the highly competitive riders at the smarter yards.
I also worked at a dog breeding/boarding kennels, where the owner referred to the pedigree inmates deferentially by their own name, followed by that of the owner. However cross breeds were always, "That mongrelly thing", said with a look of distaste and wave of the hand.
Anyway, I digress. In my youth, I quickly came to realise that many horse people had a dislike of, or completely disregarded, a large section of horses due to the animals' breeding, appearance or lack of schooling.
Now, returning to horsiness in my middle years, I find a change. Either I've sought the company of much kinder people or snobbery is much less the norm.
What can you tell me? Is the snobbery still out there or is the horse world a kinder place?
I knew other horsey people who spoke like that, she wasn't alone! I especially came across that attitude amongst the highly competitive riders at the smarter yards.
I also worked at a dog breeding/boarding kennels, where the owner referred to the pedigree inmates deferentially by their own name, followed by that of the owner. However cross breeds were always, "That mongrelly thing", said with a look of distaste and wave of the hand.
Anyway, I digress. In my youth, I quickly came to realise that many horse people had a dislike of, or completely disregarded, a large section of horses due to the animals' breeding, appearance or lack of schooling.
Now, returning to horsiness in my middle years, I find a change. Either I've sought the company of much kinder people or snobbery is much less the norm.
What can you tell me? Is the snobbery still out there or is the horse world a kinder place?