Getoutmypockets
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Hi all
Bit of an essay I'm sorry. Recently I changed jobs however my horses are at my old place of work on DIY liver with paid for services if I choose (staff permitting). Whilst I was still there (predominantly a riding school as income) my horses went through the vetting as few of my friends (mostly other staff) ride there for lessons and wanted to ride them
So on owners suggestion went through the vetting. It cost me nothing and no issue with this.
I have recently left however all friendly and horses remained there. No requests for use of one of my horses until last week. I agreed an apprentice could take him for a ride with the yard owner. Previously in lessons we had discussed trying a different bit, he's a cob with good breaks but does hang on you going into canter, and loves a good old gossip with anything he passes craning his neck to reach! he's very green schooling wise so to be expected however I just mentioned this as a pre warning for the ride. I see pictures of him in a Pelham, he's usually in a full cheek snaffle but I see him in a Mullen mouth Pelham with roundings. We never discussed something along these lines.
Since that day I've had requests for taking him to shows for someone entirely different with promise they'd practice for a discipline he's never tried (xc) with not even an offer for me to come. I did say no. But frankly I'm paying diy and on the odd day paying for a turnout yet my horse has been ridden in a Pelham from s snaffle (that he works nicely in) when breaks are not an issue and now requests to take him to shows. He's never done xc before and isn't great over poles as no respect (not seen them really) so the first few he trots through sending poles all over the school.
I just think it's really cheeky to a. Ask for them to take him offsite without me and b. Change to such strong bit with s rather novice rider on board.
I realise it's good for him to have exercise when I'm not able to but really?! Not even a free turnout/muck out in return and my tack being thrown back in tack room not to mention the horse! Funnily enough they aren't do bothered on my pony that tries it on with new people!
I'm not really sure what I'm looking for here but this isn't entirely right surely?
Wine and cake to anyone who reads I'm just s bit confused and ranging from fuming to 'I'm over reacting'
Bit of an essay I'm sorry. Recently I changed jobs however my horses are at my old place of work on DIY liver with paid for services if I choose (staff permitting). Whilst I was still there (predominantly a riding school as income) my horses went through the vetting as few of my friends (mostly other staff) ride there for lessons and wanted to ride them
So on owners suggestion went through the vetting. It cost me nothing and no issue with this.
I have recently left however all friendly and horses remained there. No requests for use of one of my horses until last week. I agreed an apprentice could take him for a ride with the yard owner. Previously in lessons we had discussed trying a different bit, he's a cob with good breaks but does hang on you going into canter, and loves a good old gossip with anything he passes craning his neck to reach! he's very green schooling wise so to be expected however I just mentioned this as a pre warning for the ride. I see pictures of him in a Pelham, he's usually in a full cheek snaffle but I see him in a Mullen mouth Pelham with roundings. We never discussed something along these lines.
Since that day I've had requests for taking him to shows for someone entirely different with promise they'd practice for a discipline he's never tried (xc) with not even an offer for me to come. I did say no. But frankly I'm paying diy and on the odd day paying for a turnout yet my horse has been ridden in a Pelham from s snaffle (that he works nicely in) when breaks are not an issue and now requests to take him to shows. He's never done xc before and isn't great over poles as no respect (not seen them really) so the first few he trots through sending poles all over the school.
I just think it's really cheeky to a. Ask for them to take him offsite without me and b. Change to such strong bit with s rather novice rider on board.
I realise it's good for him to have exercise when I'm not able to but really?! Not even a free turnout/muck out in return and my tack being thrown back in tack room not to mention the horse! Funnily enough they aren't do bothered on my pony that tries it on with new people!
I'm not really sure what I'm looking for here but this isn't entirely right surely?
Wine and cake to anyone who reads I'm just s bit confused and ranging from fuming to 'I'm over reacting'