niagaraduval
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I am an English owner living in France. I have lived here and owned the horse for 7 years now. I have countless stories to tell, most of which are so childish and petty that I won't post. There are some things (although just as childish) that really shock me. I'm wanting to know whether we are the horrible English people of if this is infact the case everywhere in the horse world. In the experience, horses seem to bring the worst out in people, there is so much bitching and jealousy it's unreal sometimes.
When we moved here, we were looking for a horse. In the mean time I rode at the local stables. When the time came to buy a horse, we asked the stables if they had any horses for sale and how much livery etc was. They didn't ever reply to us, although we were fellow clients for a whole year before buying our own. We found a neighbor that would keep a horse so we went out to meet a dealer, we later bought my.horse from this dealer. When the horse finally arrived, the WHOLE town new about it, the local stables knew about it and this is where the problems started.
The horse lost a shoe the day before a ralley, desperately seeking someone to put it back on (I had the shoe that had come off, it was still new ) the neighbor who kept our horse phoned the local stables where he arranged for me to take the horse and have his shoe nailed back on. Upon arrival were lot's of people watching like a hawk and criticising my every move. As the owner of the stables (in France it seems the owners do their own shoeing) came towards be with his hand held out, I just assumed he was going to shake my hand so grabbed his hand and gave him a firm friendly hand shake. He didn't want to shake my hand but in fact snatch my leadrope from my hands, which he then did. When the shoe was put back on his wife came out and gave me a bill for 40 euros !! They must have been some VERY expensive nails LOL because a whole new set costs 50 euros, but I didn't question this (as in fact it was mostly lack of French and I was so shocked by the whole thing) I just paid and left.
At a later date whilst hacking down the road I was followed for a good mile and then stopped by a familiar face, this woman had been teaching at the local stables but owned a stables out of town. She was red in the face and very angry, she shouted at me. Although I have no clue why, she totally lost it. I still to this day, 6 years later have no clue why she was telling me off, as I had done nothing wrong and was just walking the horse back home calmly.
Things got worse, ANYONE from the stables was nasty. When I crossed anyone out hacking they would canter past and push us out the way, I would smile and say 'bonjour' they would look the other way or pretend they hadn't heard.
The stables are in the middle of town, this doesn't seem uncommon in France, so we regularly have to ride past. When we ride past and the owner is there she slams her car door purposely next to me, and when I see her out she will speed past very very close. I mean, that is just disgusting, especially from someone who knows the risk with horses!
All I can think is this is because we rode there but didn't put our horse there ? Although it's twice the price of everywhere and has NO turnout at all, the horses are stabled in V. small stables all year 24/7. We did ask them also before buying a horse and they never replied.
When we moved here, we were looking for a horse. In the mean time I rode at the local stables. When the time came to buy a horse, we asked the stables if they had any horses for sale and how much livery etc was. They didn't ever reply to us, although we were fellow clients for a whole year before buying our own. We found a neighbor that would keep a horse so we went out to meet a dealer, we later bought my.horse from this dealer. When the horse finally arrived, the WHOLE town new about it, the local stables knew about it and this is where the problems started.
The horse lost a shoe the day before a ralley, desperately seeking someone to put it back on (I had the shoe that had come off, it was still new ) the neighbor who kept our horse phoned the local stables where he arranged for me to take the horse and have his shoe nailed back on. Upon arrival were lot's of people watching like a hawk and criticising my every move. As the owner of the stables (in France it seems the owners do their own shoeing) came towards be with his hand held out, I just assumed he was going to shake my hand so grabbed his hand and gave him a firm friendly hand shake. He didn't want to shake my hand but in fact snatch my leadrope from my hands, which he then did. When the shoe was put back on his wife came out and gave me a bill for 40 euros !! They must have been some VERY expensive nails LOL because a whole new set costs 50 euros, but I didn't question this (as in fact it was mostly lack of French and I was so shocked by the whole thing) I just paid and left.
At a later date whilst hacking down the road I was followed for a good mile and then stopped by a familiar face, this woman had been teaching at the local stables but owned a stables out of town. She was red in the face and very angry, she shouted at me. Although I have no clue why, she totally lost it. I still to this day, 6 years later have no clue why she was telling me off, as I had done nothing wrong and was just walking the horse back home calmly.
Things got worse, ANYONE from the stables was nasty. When I crossed anyone out hacking they would canter past and push us out the way, I would smile and say 'bonjour' they would look the other way or pretend they hadn't heard.
The stables are in the middle of town, this doesn't seem uncommon in France, so we regularly have to ride past. When we ride past and the owner is there she slams her car door purposely next to me, and when I see her out she will speed past very very close. I mean, that is just disgusting, especially from someone who knows the risk with horses!
All I can think is this is because we rode there but didn't put our horse there ? Although it's twice the price of everywhere and has NO turnout at all, the horses are stabled in V. small stables all year 24/7. We did ask them also before buying a horse and they never replied.