Its official - my boy is an angel so why do i get nervous?!

Hovis_and_SidsMum

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After suffering something of a confidence crisis recently I decided last night "what the heck" and took Hovis on his own to the big field. Last time with me up there he jogged the whole way and I spent most of the time curled up in the feotal position around his neck.
This time he was lovely and so i thought sod it and went for a little trot then a canter! I've not cantered him on his own in a huge open field before and he was great. On the way back to the yard we walked past one of the youngsters field and the gate swung open in the wind right into us. It made an awful noise and banged right into hovis so i thought we'd be off. He froze for a minute but i put my hand on his neck and he was fine.
My YO had seen what happened and said as we came into the yard that theres not many horses that would have been so calm and thats he's one hell of a 5 year old. So why do I still get nervous sometimes? I think i need a serious kick up the bum - i have a saint of a baby horse and I'm a scaredy cat puff!
 

conny

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well done and i know how you feel,i any very nervous sometimes although i have ridden all my life,my last horse was put down a few months back and before her i would get off and walk i was so nevous,but slowly i got my confidence on her,now i have a new horse who is only 6 but he is still quiet and i am fine on roads but off road i got soooo nervous,i guess its just time and push your self a little bit thats what im trying to do
 

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I am EXACTLY the same. i have a mare who has just turned six and i took her for a canter in the big fields with two friends on their horses last night and i could not swallow i was so nervous!! when the other two older and more experienced horses were stupid and galloped off getting really competitive, we just kept a lovely canter and trot and then waiting in the middle of the field for them to stop hooning around. she is an angel, did not get wound up at all and was a brilliant ride. so why is it that if i went again tonight i would still c**p myself! sorry to hi-jack, it's just so nice to know someone else feels the same! well done for going, and we will have to both try and have some more faith in our ponios!! x
 
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