missparis
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I have now owned my horse for nearly 7 months and, I have been sidelined for a lot of the time due to poor health (Rheumatoid Arthritis in the knees). When I first purchased him, he was an absolutely angel. However, you know when you purchase a horse, they try you out for the first couple of months? Well I think he is just starting and gave me a grace period due to ill health and he now knows that I am getting stronger again 
I was confidently jumping 1.10m, however, he has started to go downhill with me (just me, he has 2 other people that rides him and I should say that his back & teeth are fine and his had a master saddler out to him recently). It started in lessons and now he is becoming a serial refuser over planks even though he used to fine over them. My instructor, who is a pro rider, saw him throw me off and jumped on board and he attempted this behaviour once with him (stopped quite quickly as you can imagine!). Cut a long story short, I need to be tougher on him, have shorter reins, push him forward (he is a very lazy horse), and use my voice if need be on the course as he is taking advantage of my style of riding.
My dilemma is I have a comp on this weekend. Was planning on doing the 90cm and 1m class but am having a major confidence crisis due to this new behaviour shown at me. Should I jump the 80 and 90cm instead of the 1m? At the same time, I know that 80cm is way to low for both of us but I am just becoming terrified of the stops and falling off?
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I was confidently jumping 1.10m, however, he has started to go downhill with me (just me, he has 2 other people that rides him and I should say that his back & teeth are fine and his had a master saddler out to him recently). It started in lessons and now he is becoming a serial refuser over planks even though he used to fine over them. My instructor, who is a pro rider, saw him throw me off and jumped on board and he attempted this behaviour once with him (stopped quite quickly as you can imagine!). Cut a long story short, I need to be tougher on him, have shorter reins, push him forward (he is a very lazy horse), and use my voice if need be on the course as he is taking advantage of my style of riding.
My dilemma is I have a comp on this weekend. Was planning on doing the 90cm and 1m class but am having a major confidence crisis due to this new behaviour shown at me. Should I jump the 80 and 90cm instead of the 1m? At the same time, I know that 80cm is way to low for both of us but I am just becoming terrified of the stops and falling off?
Cookies and a cuppa for getting this far!