nellytheelephant
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Hiya,
I have a 16.3 6 year old mare called Nelly. I have been eventing her but at our first BE event a couple of weeks ago we had 3 stops in XC whereas she is usually very keen to do XC and never stops. I took her back to do the unaffiliated ode there at the weekend and she had 3 stops showjumping, whereas she has never stopped showjumping, and 3 stops XC so I decided to retire her. In the showjumping she was so backwards thinking and felt like she had lost all of her confidence and in the XC she was really nervous. I hate to see her like this and I don't know what I have done wrong, my jumping position isn't great which I am working on, but are there any techniques I can work on to help build her confidence? I am getting her back checked this weekend and getting her saddle refitted, I have had her teeth done. Many thanks!
I have a 16.3 6 year old mare called Nelly. I have been eventing her but at our first BE event a couple of weeks ago we had 3 stops in XC whereas she is usually very keen to do XC and never stops. I took her back to do the unaffiliated ode there at the weekend and she had 3 stops showjumping, whereas she has never stopped showjumping, and 3 stops XC so I decided to retire her. In the showjumping she was so backwards thinking and felt like she had lost all of her confidence and in the XC she was really nervous. I hate to see her like this and I don't know what I have done wrong, my jumping position isn't great which I am working on, but are there any techniques I can work on to help build her confidence? I am getting her back checked this weekend and getting her saddle refitted, I have had her teeth done. Many thanks!