Fools Motto
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My mare is lovely, and I adore her. I think we are getting along just fab. I've had her a whole year now and we've done a bit of everything and have improved in the way of going / fitness / my riding.
Saying that, she still goes very green at 'parties' and shrinks back into herself. This means when I say 'go', there isn't much in the way of her taking me (thelwell kicking commences!) So far we've managed to get round - dressage, SJ and a ODE. I think we've done about 10 proper parties plus some XC schooling and training sessions (not a problem - it's the competion atmosphere). It's getting better but the video's do look like I'm working very hard! When I take a schooling whip or even a jumping whip a quick smack has a positive reaction, it literally seems to 'wake her up' and get her concentrating, resulting in much better rounds. However, the modern rules about having a baton (like a race whip - humane I suppose)... do totally nothing. At my ODE, although I got round I had to go to the stewards because I was hitting her hard several times and the fence judges didn't like it.. If I had a 'normal whip', one smack would have been far better. The very last thing I want is a horse who is just a bit star struck and making jumping dangerous by climbing over or tripping over a small solid fence. (We're doing 90cm at home, and 70/80 at parties)
Obviously I don't want to be hitting her, but we've got to keep going out and getting her learning. There is only so much I can do schooling when the problem only arises with the atmosphere.
I can't help but feel I'm not alone. I don't even think there is a solution, after all I can't over ride the rules. I've probably made it sound way worse than it actually is. She is improving all the time, so it's not a case of 'don't compete if she doesn't want to'. Years ago when I was bringing on my then young horse, she too, needed a good whack at the right place to do the right thing, it worked and she ended up being incredible.
Any tips or similar stories welcome.
Saying that, she still goes very green at 'parties' and shrinks back into herself. This means when I say 'go', there isn't much in the way of her taking me (thelwell kicking commences!) So far we've managed to get round - dressage, SJ and a ODE. I think we've done about 10 proper parties plus some XC schooling and training sessions (not a problem - it's the competion atmosphere). It's getting better but the video's do look like I'm working very hard! When I take a schooling whip or even a jumping whip a quick smack has a positive reaction, it literally seems to 'wake her up' and get her concentrating, resulting in much better rounds. However, the modern rules about having a baton (like a race whip - humane I suppose)... do totally nothing. At my ODE, although I got round I had to go to the stewards because I was hitting her hard several times and the fence judges didn't like it.. If I had a 'normal whip', one smack would have been far better. The very last thing I want is a horse who is just a bit star struck and making jumping dangerous by climbing over or tripping over a small solid fence. (We're doing 90cm at home, and 70/80 at parties)
Obviously I don't want to be hitting her, but we've got to keep going out and getting her learning. There is only so much I can do schooling when the problem only arises with the atmosphere.
I can't help but feel I'm not alone. I don't even think there is a solution, after all I can't over ride the rules. I've probably made it sound way worse than it actually is. She is improving all the time, so it's not a case of 'don't compete if she doesn't want to'. Years ago when I was bringing on my then young horse, she too, needed a good whack at the right place to do the right thing, it worked and she ended up being incredible.
Any tips or similar stories welcome.