Jenniferdella1
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l have a 7 year old ex racer (P2P) who last raced April, 2007. l bought her from a dealer in November, 2008. l've discovered the dealer had only had her for a few weeks tops.
Holding my hands up here as l know l've been a fool as l didn't get her properly vetted. l was dealing with a woman l thought l could trust.............hmmmm, NEVER again!
Anyway, problem is: My mare started bucking and misbehaving after only a week of having her. l am a very novice rider (dealer told me she was TB cross and had never raced..........again, l've been a fool as l took her word for it and discovered the truth once l was handed the passport...........post delivery of the horse. Just quickly here, l asked for her to have the horse returned and my money back within days of having the horse and she refused......................l'm sure there's many folk out there with similar experiences).
Right, situation now is that as l'd really outhorsed myself and became frightened with her bucking etc, l was given a fab opportunity to have her professionally schooled and brought on so she was moved to their yard but within a couple of days of her being there the bucking started up, some rears and a very reluctant horse with cantering.
Mare was taken to vets (Willesley clinic) this week and kissing spines was diagnosed. lt has been recommended that she has surgery for this. lt appears my poor mare has had this problem for years.
l don't know what to do now. Do l go ahead with surgery, all the rehab and the likelihood of my £5k max claim being used up before the rehab is finished? l'm worried as l don't have funds to continue looking after this post-op care once my insurance is paid out.
l don't know if my horse is in constant pain but it appears that way as she has only ever had very light riders since November, 2008, she has not been worked hard just light schooling and hacking and now she cannot even bear to be lunged with no rider at all.
Do l consider euthanasia? Do l consider sending her off to the blood bank for a quiet life? l've never been in such a dreadful dilemma.
lf l was told that the surgery was hugely successful and that it would be the best choice then l would try and find funds somehow somewhere but what if l end up with a crippled horse if the surgery fails and then still have the same dilemma but with no insurance?
Any advice would be most grateful.
Thanks
Jennifer
Holding my hands up here as l know l've been a fool as l didn't get her properly vetted. l was dealing with a woman l thought l could trust.............hmmmm, NEVER again!
Anyway, problem is: My mare started bucking and misbehaving after only a week of having her. l am a very novice rider (dealer told me she was TB cross and had never raced..........again, l've been a fool as l took her word for it and discovered the truth once l was handed the passport...........post delivery of the horse. Just quickly here, l asked for her to have the horse returned and my money back within days of having the horse and she refused......................l'm sure there's many folk out there with similar experiences).
Right, situation now is that as l'd really outhorsed myself and became frightened with her bucking etc, l was given a fab opportunity to have her professionally schooled and brought on so she was moved to their yard but within a couple of days of her being there the bucking started up, some rears and a very reluctant horse with cantering.
Mare was taken to vets (Willesley clinic) this week and kissing spines was diagnosed. lt has been recommended that she has surgery for this. lt appears my poor mare has had this problem for years.
l don't know what to do now. Do l go ahead with surgery, all the rehab and the likelihood of my £5k max claim being used up before the rehab is finished? l'm worried as l don't have funds to continue looking after this post-op care once my insurance is paid out.
l don't know if my horse is in constant pain but it appears that way as she has only ever had very light riders since November, 2008, she has not been worked hard just light schooling and hacking and now she cannot even bear to be lunged with no rider at all.
Do l consider euthanasia? Do l consider sending her off to the blood bank for a quiet life? l've never been in such a dreadful dilemma.
lf l was told that the surgery was hugely successful and that it would be the best choice then l would try and find funds somehow somewhere but what if l end up with a crippled horse if the surgery fails and then still have the same dilemma but with no insurance?
Any advice would be most grateful.
Thanks
Jennifer