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He looks lovely, nothing like as bad as I expected from the op. I had one like this, didn't take too long to turn him around as long as I was consistent. He just needs to know you mean business from the start so even before I get on I'd make him march in from the field, to start with I needed a longer lead rope or a whip I could swish to get him walking smartly but it soon became the norm that I didn't have to drag him everywhere.
Then the same when I got on, if I slopped along going large at walk and then tried to work he said I'd really rather not whereas being insistent from the first step from the mounting block that we were working I had a completely different horse. You've had some really good advice already about first asking nicely and then insisting, from there it's just about retraining your expectations of him, you shouldn't have to nag and he should do as asked the first time immediately and not in his own time. The hardest part is keeping yourself disciplined and not falling back into old habits, if you do a transition that isn't to your standards redo it, don't just accept it.
Then the same when I got on, if I slopped along going large at walk and then tried to work he said I'd really rather not whereas being insistent from the first step from the mounting block that we were working I had a completely different horse. You've had some really good advice already about first asking nicely and then insisting, from there it's just about retraining your expectations of him, you shouldn't have to nag and he should do as asked the first time immediately and not in his own time. The hardest part is keeping yourself disciplined and not falling back into old habits, if you do a transition that isn't to your standards redo it, don't just accept it.