Doublethyme
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That is always the trade-off with increasing the work rate: fit horses, especially if of a Thoroughbred persuasion, tend to get even fitter and more reactive, which is why being able to free school or turn out is so useful. However, I also think that part of your particular problem is that he's simply ignoring you, so perhaps ask your instructor for some exercises that will engage his brain a bit more (for instance, shoulder-in past anything he thinks is particularly spooky). Lots of transitions are also good. What is NOT good is being too afraid to do more than walk (which a lot of people resort too); a good forward trot or canter will engage the horse a lot more and give him less time to invent things to spook at. Good luck; we're all in the same boat at the moment!
Excellent advice. Having been in your shoes OP and still am at times with my young Hanoverian (hefty TB influence), I can really relate to your situation, with the horse gets tense spooky/rider tenses, downward spiral!! I fell off my youngster in the summer through a sharp spook/spin and it hurt, so I naturally was more inclined to "eek" moments when back on board. My instructor gave me the same advise as Cortez and it really works when you can let it.
Best bit of advise my instructor gave me was not to confront the spooky areas at the beginning of a session, but to also not let my mare dictate where she went and where she spooked if possible, but to try to preempt the danger zones and make her part of my plan before she made me part of hers!! Therefore initially I couldn't work at one end of the school, very spooky, close trees, ponies behind, sheep, birds, fox, cat, communication antennae thing that comes on randomly with buzzing.......horse was already scared of that end, I got scared too after she ditched me into the fence in the summer, so it was not a good combination.
So I initially would go in and work in the areas we were both happy with, if I even felt a slightly hesitation from my mare, I would dictate a change of direction away from scary place, but at my lead and forwards. Lots of basic baby lateral work, changes of direction etc etc, but all in our "comfort zone", then gradually inching our way up the school, but still not head on confronting the areas. By doing this, we have both completely got over our phobias and my mare is much much much less spooky and concentrates on me mostly now. We happily can go straight in most days and work the whole school with minimum spooking. Even though it is now winter and worst time of year, we are both more confident and she is really working well most of the time in the "bad" areas even in extreme weather.
My initial reactions were to force the issue (hence my meeting with the fence....) or to avoid completely and sit like a tense rabbit in the headlights in walk - result a pretty hyper, scared, mega spooked horse. I was also unwittingly letting her slide of my aids, ie whilst outwardly she didn't look too bad, she was constantly just slightly ahead or behind my aids and seat, so evading me even when behaving. My instructor has worked on this with me and I am now much more aware of just checking she is with me instead of me constantly trying to stay "with" her instead.
I do have her on a calmer, BUT, I do believe that it worked on my issues more than hers and I didn't put her on it for the riding issues, but for calmness for winter stabling, as she had a few issues previous winter and had been out all summer 24/7. I use Feedmark Steady Up and do think it helps with general relaxed mind, BUT only combined with me allowing her to relax and leading her rather than being a passenger.
Good luck, I do know how easily it is for them to erode your confidence, its taken me a good 6 months to really get back to where I wanted to be with my mare and I'm not one normally to get shaken - but I'm too old to get ditched on a spin nowadays and it hurt when I did!!