chaps89
Well-Known Member
I have had my horse 9 years now, he has been retired since last October and is due to be pts due to numerous health issues in the coming month or two.
Initially I was going to wait until next year before finding another one but realised I just couldn't do it & to purchase another before mine goes & begged & borrowed the money to do so. Looked around & through word of mouth found a horse who although I didn't know what I was looking for, ticked every box & felt extremely lucky.
New horse was supposed to be arriving tomorrow but came up lame at a vet check on Monday, then wasn't sound on a circle on a hard surface the next day, combined with him seeming slightly unlevel a week prior and only being 4 we made the hard decision to walk away.
I now don't feel there is enough time to find the right horse before my old boy goes & so I am back to the original plan of looking again next year.
I am lucky, a friend has a pony I can ride whenever I want but she is miles away so in reality it is a limited option. I have been riding another friends daughters pony for the last few months but find her extremely hard work & although I am grateful for the chance to be riding don't particularly enjoy it. I had found a share pony but he went lame & is out of action, so combined with the fact I didn't really 'click' with him, supposedly getting another myself & him being box rested I gave him up.
I keep telling myself everything happens for a reason & to treasure the time left with the old boy but I just know I am going to miss the daily routine. Not even the riding as such (my riding ability seems to have disappeared & I can't believe how quickly I have lost riding fitness which isn't helping as it's putting me off getting back into it on other peoples horses when the opportunities are limited/I can't focus properly on getting backup to scratch) but just the daily routine, having a reason to get up other than work in a morning & the daily care & attention to give to them. I'm also extremely worried I will get fat not doing daily yard jobs but lack the motivation for going to the gym (which is silly)
My plan is the money I spend on horse at present will just go into savings for new horse so next year I don't have to borrow £ to buy, so I won't even be particularly better off.
Sorry, its rambley, I don't really know what I'm looking for in response (I probably need a kick up the ar$e really as at least I've had a horse & can get another one even if it is a year down the line & could ride if I wanted so am more fortunate than some but I just can't pull myself into a stronger frame of mind right now), but how have other people coped when this happens?
Initially I was going to wait until next year before finding another one but realised I just couldn't do it & to purchase another before mine goes & begged & borrowed the money to do so. Looked around & through word of mouth found a horse who although I didn't know what I was looking for, ticked every box & felt extremely lucky.
New horse was supposed to be arriving tomorrow but came up lame at a vet check on Monday, then wasn't sound on a circle on a hard surface the next day, combined with him seeming slightly unlevel a week prior and only being 4 we made the hard decision to walk away.
I now don't feel there is enough time to find the right horse before my old boy goes & so I am back to the original plan of looking again next year.
I am lucky, a friend has a pony I can ride whenever I want but she is miles away so in reality it is a limited option. I have been riding another friends daughters pony for the last few months but find her extremely hard work & although I am grateful for the chance to be riding don't particularly enjoy it. I had found a share pony but he went lame & is out of action, so combined with the fact I didn't really 'click' with him, supposedly getting another myself & him being box rested I gave him up.
I keep telling myself everything happens for a reason & to treasure the time left with the old boy but I just know I am going to miss the daily routine. Not even the riding as such (my riding ability seems to have disappeared & I can't believe how quickly I have lost riding fitness which isn't helping as it's putting me off getting back into it on other peoples horses when the opportunities are limited/I can't focus properly on getting backup to scratch) but just the daily routine, having a reason to get up other than work in a morning & the daily care & attention to give to them. I'm also extremely worried I will get fat not doing daily yard jobs but lack the motivation for going to the gym (which is silly)
My plan is the money I spend on horse at present will just go into savings for new horse so next year I don't have to borrow £ to buy, so I won't even be particularly better off.
Sorry, its rambley, I don't really know what I'm looking for in response (I probably need a kick up the ar$e really as at least I've had a horse & can get another one even if it is a year down the line & could ride if I wanted so am more fortunate than some but I just can't pull myself into a stronger frame of mind right now), but how have other people coped when this happens?