Sugar Plum
Well-Known Member
No hate please, this is a genuine issue. There are no health issues that influence this.
I have a horse who is very adamant that he will not load on occasions. I have had two specialists with different ways of loading, one confrontational (considered not a good fit) and one working ever so calmly until horse loads quite willingly. I have continued with this path but it is becoming very frustrating because if horse doesn't want to load, he won't. Being nice only goes so far when horse is rearing and pulling away at the slightest touch / pull on the lead (this is only in extreme circumstance when trying to load coming home).
I really don't want to engage a third person, because at this point I feel the issue sits squarely with the horse. It makes no difference loading if he is travelling alone or with a partner. I do practice loading several times a month and apart from a minor hesitation on the first load he bounces on and off, I assume because he knows these practices do not result in him going anywhere. I have tried loading and driving around the block, unloading and reloading which is fine.
I am just at my wits end. I know we all think we can load someone else's horse, but this is definitely not the case with this guy, it will only make it worse.
Just a moan really as I do not see light at the end of the tunnel at the moment. I have done everything possible to try and make loading and going somewhere as nice an experience as possible. I had a light and airy forward facing trailer, thought that may be the issue so bought a light and airy rear facing horsebox - no difference.
I have a horse who is very adamant that he will not load on occasions. I have had two specialists with different ways of loading, one confrontational (considered not a good fit) and one working ever so calmly until horse loads quite willingly. I have continued with this path but it is becoming very frustrating because if horse doesn't want to load, he won't. Being nice only goes so far when horse is rearing and pulling away at the slightest touch / pull on the lead (this is only in extreme circumstance when trying to load coming home).
I really don't want to engage a third person, because at this point I feel the issue sits squarely with the horse. It makes no difference loading if he is travelling alone or with a partner. I do practice loading several times a month and apart from a minor hesitation on the first load he bounces on and off, I assume because he knows these practices do not result in him going anywhere. I have tried loading and driving around the block, unloading and reloading which is fine.
I am just at my wits end. I know we all think we can load someone else's horse, but this is definitely not the case with this guy, it will only make it worse.
Just a moan really as I do not see light at the end of the tunnel at the moment. I have done everything possible to try and make loading and going somewhere as nice an experience as possible. I had a light and airy forward facing trailer, thought that may be the issue so bought a light and airy rear facing horsebox - no difference.