ScattyBella
Well-Known Member
I've been umming and ahhing over loaning out my ISHX for about 6 months now, He is superb in every way and at the moment I'm not really doing him enough justice. He is a fab hunter and was sold as an event prospect before i rescued him. I have owned him for 4 years now and have made him what he is today and I've kind of been half looking for a loaner. My friend hunts with him and we hack regularly but she has just taken on a hunter for herself and Domino has become a bit redundant.
Anyway i have found (or rather she found me) a girl who want him on loan, she came to see him today and though she is very *ahem pushy and straight down the line, they really hit it off and they do have a great connection.
I set the record straight as far as my loan agreements, that he is not to be taken further than a 50 mile radius of me, I am to be kept in the loop regarding where he is taken to and I want to vet the place she wants to take him. Financially I will pay for his insurance and will be notified of any visits from the vet. I will visit him at least once a month for the first six months and will cover any bills within reason (if they are incurred through her own fault she will be responsible) including the dentist. Her financial responsibilities will be his livery/feed etc and farrier.
She competes and has use of trailers and whatnot and is very knowledgeable but she seemed really put out that I was being so strict, she kept mentioning her last loan horse and how easygoing the arrangement was and I couldnt seem to get it through to her how important this horse is to me. she seemed to think I doubt her ability and its not that at all, I brought Dom back from deaths door, almost lost my job and my husband over him and he means the absolute world to me, to me he isnt 'just a horse'.
I dont doubt she will be nothing but good for him, but after the disaster we had with my last loaning I need to be as careful as i can be.
He hasnt ever really left me yet, and I do worry about him and want to keep a good eye on him for a while, surely thats not being unreasonable? He is as tough as nails physically but emotionally he is still a bit more dependant on me than Id like, but its understandable and she did grasp that, he was awfully loving to her too and she thought it was ''beautiful to get such affection from a horse I've only just met''
She left it that she will 'think about it' and get back to me, and didnt seem half as enthusiastic as she was after she dismounted him.
Does this sound too unreasonable? I did make it clear after six months if everything was going well then we would review the situation.???
Anyway i have found (or rather she found me) a girl who want him on loan, she came to see him today and though she is very *ahem pushy and straight down the line, they really hit it off and they do have a great connection.
I set the record straight as far as my loan agreements, that he is not to be taken further than a 50 mile radius of me, I am to be kept in the loop regarding where he is taken to and I want to vet the place she wants to take him. Financially I will pay for his insurance and will be notified of any visits from the vet. I will visit him at least once a month for the first six months and will cover any bills within reason (if they are incurred through her own fault she will be responsible) including the dentist. Her financial responsibilities will be his livery/feed etc and farrier.
She competes and has use of trailers and whatnot and is very knowledgeable but she seemed really put out that I was being so strict, she kept mentioning her last loan horse and how easygoing the arrangement was and I couldnt seem to get it through to her how important this horse is to me. she seemed to think I doubt her ability and its not that at all, I brought Dom back from deaths door, almost lost my job and my husband over him and he means the absolute world to me, to me he isnt 'just a horse'.
I dont doubt she will be nothing but good for him, but after the disaster we had with my last loaning I need to be as careful as i can be.
He hasnt ever really left me yet, and I do worry about him and want to keep a good eye on him for a while, surely thats not being unreasonable? He is as tough as nails physically but emotionally he is still a bit more dependant on me than Id like, but its understandable and she did grasp that, he was awfully loving to her too and she thought it was ''beautiful to get such affection from a horse I've only just met''
She left it that she will 'think about it' and get back to me, and didnt seem half as enthusiastic as she was after she dismounted him.
Does this sound too unreasonable? I did make it clear after six months if everything was going well then we would review the situation.???