Loan or Sell?

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Am going into my second year of uni in Sept, and after last year I don't think I have the time or the money to do Sky justice.
I know realistically keeping her myself is not an option, but I don't know whether to loan or sell her?
I really dont want to sell her, she's my perfect horse and obviously because she is Sid's sister I have a strong emotional tie to her as well.
At the same time I have fears about loaning...
1) Because of the horror stories you hear..
2) Because we loaned out my pony a few years ago and he came back in such a sorry state.
3) I'm really worried about her being 'ruined'. I know that may sound drastic, but she's so young and I think she could have such an incredible future ahead of her if she's brought on slowly and carefully.
4)The worry that she may be injured permanently or otherwise and I will be left with a horse I cant ride, yet still have to pay for.
Really unsure of the best thing to do...
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any thoughts on the matter appreciated. Sorry for the essay!
 
As you are so attached to her I'd probably loan in your situation. You DO have until September though, so it's plenty of time to make sure that you absolutely find the right place for her to go to.

As you've loaned before you obviously know the importance of a good loan contract, visits and updates. It would be a shame to sell her.
 
I would loan her. The way I see it is if they're badly treated when sold, you can't do anything about it.
 
loan, try word of mouth, local yards, everyone knows everyone in this world, i loaned horses and shared for years and never ever let anyone down and took so much care, there are some good loaners out there honestly, just dont loan to a stranger, be patient and bide your time, ask lots of questions and perhaps insist sky stays at present yard, most do nowadays. also, having been a loaner/loanee whatever the word is, i know its very hard to find a good horse to loan so you should be inundated especially this time of year so you can be choosy. good luck and let me know....
 
its a hard one for you. At least youve got a few months to decide on what to do with her. Is there a chance of you taking her to Uni with you? If not then I would consider loaning her out, either that or leaving her at home and turning her away and riding her only when you come home?
 
I had her at uni with me this year and really struggled time wise!
Sadly turning her away isn't an option either. She'd have to go onto Livery and cant afford it!
Guess I'd better start putting the word out and see what kind of response I get locally. If anyone on here knows anyone who's looking please PM me or something...
 
Maybe you could sneakily put a few details up?
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If there's nowhere she can just go and have some time out then I think loaning would be best. She will still be yours when you finish Uni, perhaps advertise her for loan but to stay at current yard and then at least you or your friends can keep an eye on her? It would be a crying shame to have to sell her
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If I was going to advertise her, which I definitely wouldn't do on here
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would probably be along the lines of:
16.2 4yrs ISH mare.
Broken 5 months - very trainable attitude and willing. Excellent to hack, just started jumping. Good in all respects but can be mareish, especially with other horses.
And a photo - because she's pretty!!
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thats a real shame. Shes gorgeous and if I had time/room then id have her off you no questions asked. Like you said she needs something doing with her as shes only young but you need to find someone that understands that.
If you put her out on loan you can always stipulate that its only for the time youre at uni and when youve finished shes all yours again.
 
I fully intend too!!
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I think I'd be less worried if she was a few years older. I just really dont want her to be pushed too hard too young and to end up with a knackered horse! She's so willing as well that I sometimes forget how young she is! But at the same time think I may find it hard to find someone who wants to loan a horse to essentially just bring it on and then give it back?
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Ooowww she is lovely and looks a lot like my horsie, if I could afford to keep another I would definately loan her off you! I think there will be some people around who'd want her, a fairly experienced rider who enjoys bringing on horses would gain a lot from her and really enjoy her I'd imagine. At least you have a while to look, put a few adverts up and vet the people who come to look so you can choose who you think is best for her, and even get to know them over the summer to check they are right for her and she is happy with them. I live in Surrey so will keep an ear out for you. Damn I wish I had more money! She really does look lovely, you are very lucky to ave such a nice horse, she looks like she hasa lot of potential and is naturally athletic so I would definately loan her rather than selling.
 
I almost envy you for being able to give your horse up for uni, I couldn't in fact mine have almost doubled since I started my degree last september!

I loaned out my grey mare to a 'friend' when I was pregnant and it was a disaster, she ended up in a state of neglect (think almost HAPPA case) and was being galloped at jumps and then smacked if she knocked one down. Luckily a friend told me and I brought her home. I'm now considering putting her on loan again to someone that just wants to hack out who stables on the yard I'm at so I can keep a close eye on her and I know this person will spoil her rotton while I concentrate on my youngsters.
 
BG; in these situations I would always advise selling the horse as university takes a huge toll on people, plus you will be very busy afterwards, looking for jobs etc. ......however, in your specific situation and because of the ties you have here, I would definitely say to loan her. She is a very special girl to you and if you find the right loan home then this will be best for everyone I feel.

RHT; sorry but I also think your comment was unnecessary; there are some very kind and caring people on this forum and most would certainly take the best of care of any horse living with them.
 
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