HorseMad91
Well-Known Member
hiya
Sorry for the long post.
my daughters pony is out on loan because he was to forward going for her, now two years on my daughters riding has really come on and she now needs a more forward going pony.The people loaning my pony don't seem bothered about his weight even though I have told them many times how overweight he is and the little girl who rides him is getting to big for him so they can't get a saddle that fits the pony and her but they think it will be ok to just put a bigger saddle on him even though his back is to short. So I've just informed them that I am not going to be renewing the contract when it comes to an end but their more then welcome to still come and see him when their passing as I know how attached to the pony the little girl is so I wanted to give them option. Now I'm being told I've ruined Christmas and I'm destroying the little girls life by taking away her horse they wanted to keep him forever, the pony is the little girls whole world and how could I be so heartless, I'm being completely unfair to the girl. I'm trying to be as nice as I can about it but I need to think of what my daughter happiness as well they knew I was going to have the pony back eventually. Ever since the pony went out on loan my daughter has said I'm going to keep trying and get better at riding so I can have my pony back and she's only 5 and has worked so hard.
Am I being reasonable to the family or am I being unfair? I have tried to be as nice as I can about it I get that their upset but I don't see why they have to be so nasty about it, I want to do what's best for the pony and my daughter.
thanks
Sorry for the long post.
my daughters pony is out on loan because he was to forward going for her, now two years on my daughters riding has really come on and she now needs a more forward going pony.The people loaning my pony don't seem bothered about his weight even though I have told them many times how overweight he is and the little girl who rides him is getting to big for him so they can't get a saddle that fits the pony and her but they think it will be ok to just put a bigger saddle on him even though his back is to short. So I've just informed them that I am not going to be renewing the contract when it comes to an end but their more then welcome to still come and see him when their passing as I know how attached to the pony the little girl is so I wanted to give them option. Now I'm being told I've ruined Christmas and I'm destroying the little girls life by taking away her horse they wanted to keep him forever, the pony is the little girls whole world and how could I be so heartless, I'm being completely unfair to the girl. I'm trying to be as nice as I can about it but I need to think of what my daughter happiness as well they knew I was going to have the pony back eventually. Ever since the pony went out on loan my daughter has said I'm going to keep trying and get better at riding so I can have my pony back and she's only 5 and has worked so hard.
Am I being reasonable to the family or am I being unfair? I have tried to be as nice as I can about it I get that their upset but I don't see why they have to be so nasty about it, I want to do what's best for the pony and my daughter.
thanks