Bernster
Well-Known Member
Typical story, I suppose. I have 2 horses, 1 of which I have kind of outgrown. Love him to bits, he's a total superstar, has taken me from numpty novice to dressage, hunting, sj - you name it.
BUT I hardly have any time to ride him, so I feel like he's going to waste. More than that though (cos I don't think he cares as long as he's fed and looked after!), he deserves to be someone's 1st horse/love. I can't really afford to keep two. Am managing ok with a sharer but I feel like that's not a viable long term option.
I'm thinking about getting a 2nd sharer or loaning. Selling not an option for now as I still can't bring myself to think of that. Hearing so many scare stories about loaning has put me off that option. Surely there are some good loan stories, so what's the secret to making it work for you, your horse and the loanee?
PS I kind of knew I'd have this decision when I bought the 2nd, but I am a good at burying my head in the sand and hoping it all works out somehow!!
Thank you
BUT I hardly have any time to ride him, so I feel like he's going to waste. More than that though (cos I don't think he cares as long as he's fed and looked after!), he deserves to be someone's 1st horse/love. I can't really afford to keep two. Am managing ok with a sharer but I feel like that's not a viable long term option.
I'm thinking about getting a 2nd sharer or loaning. Selling not an option for now as I still can't bring myself to think of that. Hearing so many scare stories about loaning has put me off that option. Surely there are some good loan stories, so what's the secret to making it work for you, your horse and the loanee?
PS I kind of knew I'd have this decision when I bought the 2nd, but I am a good at burying my head in the sand and hoping it all works out somehow!!
Thank you