Long term cures for yard bitchiness??

foraday said:
Oh dear not good always a shame when just a few spoil it!

Other than the suggestions above we name our bully's!!!

We have Hitler, Inspector Gadget and the latest one matron aka self appointed yard manager!!!

None of them are any good but they all live up to their names!!!!

Hitler bashes anything she feels like

Inspector Gadget obviously inspects everything but her own stuff

Matron the latest one believes she speaks for the yard!!!!

IF these 3 just disappeared into a hole in Norfolk and never came back we would be one happy lot!!!!

Seems every yard has them!
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Brilliant!!
 
Your yard sounds so much like mine, including an incident like the poster who mentioned Police being involved!

I tried to be nice, grit my teeth and be polite for a very long time. I do have a line though and once someone crosses it there is no going back. If it happens then I cut these people out of my life. I do not even try to be courteous, I simply ignore them completely. I do not have time in my life for people like that.

I have no regard for their opinions and when I go to yard, I just get on with what I need to get done and chat away to the minority I do actually like, others I will be polite to and the rest don't exist in my world. I never talk about anyone behind their backs on the yard and I do not express my opinion of what I think of their behaviour to them either. This way I cannot be blamed for any stirring or inappropriate behaviour, unless ignoring people who warrant being ignored is inappropriate!

I do not care about being popular or well liked. It's just who I am. If people want to be bitchy then they can go ahead but I don't waste any time on them.
 
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