patchwork puzzle
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I am currently on a private yard with just my two ponies and the owner of the house has two ponies there also.
When I first moved there, it was to be on a DIY livery basis, just doing my own ponies, however it became apparent very quickly that the owner could not be there so often and so she asked if I could do her horses at times. I had no problem with this but again, within a short space of time I found myself doing them for the majority of the week whilst she was away. We spoke about this and came up with an arrangement whereby I would have free livery in return for caring for her horses whenever she was unable to be around, and when she was about she would do the poo picking and bring mine in etc to help weigh up the favour.
After this I began to see her less and less and since last year she has only been back once. There were a lot of issues in the background and so I was happy enough to do what I could to help her out, also helped by my having a friend who could come up three times a week and help give her ponies some tlc.
More recently though, my friend is now no longer to come up. I let the owner know and asked if she knew of anyone who could help as I was going to struggle with mucking out and looking after 4 and having a full time job, family etc.
My problem is this, I hardly receive any communication back, she hasn't acknowledged my request for any help (the ponies had previous sharers) or even acknowledged that I may be struggling and her ponies are getting the minimal in care which I hate as want them to have the attention they deserve.
I have ordered hay and shavings on her account (with her consent of course) but the hard feed for them I have had to pay for and I don't get any response to my messages re; farrier (the last time I had to chase again and again to get payment as I was adamant they needed doing that time and couldn't be left again. This time round she hasn't responded again) I also asked about worming and vaccinations but no response.
To complicate things further she has now sold the house. They have exchanged contracts and are due to complete in a week. The new owners are happy for me to stay but I cannot get any information out of the (soon to be) previous owner regarding her ponies. She said at one point that she was going to sell them but each time I ask she'll either not respond or arrange a date to be there and then say she can't be there at the last minute.
My worries may come to nothing as she may move them or have an arrangement in place but with only a week to go, I would just like to know what's going on with them and know for certain that they aren't going to be left there indefinitely!
I'd appreciate any thoughts on what others would do.
When I first moved there, it was to be on a DIY livery basis, just doing my own ponies, however it became apparent very quickly that the owner could not be there so often and so she asked if I could do her horses at times. I had no problem with this but again, within a short space of time I found myself doing them for the majority of the week whilst she was away. We spoke about this and came up with an arrangement whereby I would have free livery in return for caring for her horses whenever she was unable to be around, and when she was about she would do the poo picking and bring mine in etc to help weigh up the favour.
After this I began to see her less and less and since last year she has only been back once. There were a lot of issues in the background and so I was happy enough to do what I could to help her out, also helped by my having a friend who could come up three times a week and help give her ponies some tlc.
More recently though, my friend is now no longer to come up. I let the owner know and asked if she knew of anyone who could help as I was going to struggle with mucking out and looking after 4 and having a full time job, family etc.
My problem is this, I hardly receive any communication back, she hasn't acknowledged my request for any help (the ponies had previous sharers) or even acknowledged that I may be struggling and her ponies are getting the minimal in care which I hate as want them to have the attention they deserve.
I have ordered hay and shavings on her account (with her consent of course) but the hard feed for them I have had to pay for and I don't get any response to my messages re; farrier (the last time I had to chase again and again to get payment as I was adamant they needed doing that time and couldn't be left again. This time round she hasn't responded again) I also asked about worming and vaccinations but no response.
To complicate things further she has now sold the house. They have exchanged contracts and are due to complete in a week. The new owners are happy for me to stay but I cannot get any information out of the (soon to be) previous owner regarding her ponies. She said at one point that she was going to sell them but each time I ask she'll either not respond or arrange a date to be there and then say she can't be there at the last minute.
My worries may come to nothing as she may move them or have an arrangement in place but with only a week to go, I would just like to know what's going on with them and know for certain that they aren't going to be left there indefinitely!
I'd appreciate any thoughts on what others would do.