Lost Stanley to bone cancer on monday

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On monday, my beloved 5 year old lab Stanley was PTS.

He had been on house rest for a month with a mild limp, but then in the last week it became so much worse, and the vet arranged for xrays. I knew it was going to be bad before we left him - but when the vet rang, I thought he was going to say arthritis, broken bone, ripped ligament/tendon. But no, he said it was very bad, a tumour.

We rushed straight round, and looked at the xrays - incredible, his humerous was being eaten away by this tumour, and it was at his shoulder joint too. The vet said he was almost certain that the tumour would have metastised to his lungs by this stage, and there was no treatment he could offer. He said some people amputate, but then the dog suffers with his lungs.

I then had to get hubs to agree that taking him home for a last few days would just cause him more pain, and that he should be PTS while he was sedated. When he saw us, his tail wagged continuously, and we sang his puppy song as the deed was done. I clipped some hair from him, and just laid with him. That night I saw him at Rainbow Bridge - he was "electric" - eyes shining like stars, coat gleaming and he could run again !!! He told me he was ok now.

This is the second lab we've lost at 5 years old. Sydney died in Sydney Quarantine when we emigrated in 2007 - we never got to say goodbye as we were up north. We like to think that we were chosen to have two dogs who would die young, so that their short lives would be so happy in the time they had. :) Stanley mended my broken heart when Syd died.

Stan was my pony's best friend - they grew up together, went out on rides every day, and he taught Shy to carry sticks in his mouth. Shy would chase Stan for ages to get at his stick.

This is a pic of my three best boys from last month, and one of Stan smiling for the camera ;

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My heart is broken. Bone cancer - just stunned. Thanks so much for listening, I need to talk about him. xx
 
Thankyou.

The house is soooo quiet, there's no one licking the plates in the dishwasher, no one fighting to be on my lap all night, his big terrier sister is so lost, she is coming to me for rescue remedy (:eek:), and no Stan out for his daily ride. We can't have kids, so he was a child to us.

We almost lost Stan two years ago when he had severe kidney problem, and we were told he probably wouldn't make it - but he did. And now this.

My heart is so painful right now. My whole body is painful, I'm dizzy, but I know we did our very best for Stan (and Syd), and that our vet was superb - he was crying his eyes out, he told me he didn't want to make that call...not after he got Stanley back from the brink before.

O.M.G.
 
I can feel the tears welling as I type this...........:(

I'm so very sorry to hear the news about Stanley. Your decision to PTS was a brave and selfless one, and absolutely the right thing to do.

RIP, Stanley. Run free with Sydney.

C xx :(
 
It's just so intense now - at first it was like we were waiting to pick him up from the vet.

He always had a big thing about car indicators, and especially driving into Morrison's carpark (food :p), and tonight it was silent. I wish I'd never told him to shut up when he did it, *sigh*

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I am very sorry, he looked well loved and devoted to you in return. You are a caring compassionate owner and friend what more could a dog want. Sending my thoughts at this sad time x
 
Thankyou (sob). I know he had to go when he did, but I wish I could turn back time and have those five years with Stan all over again. x
 
So sorry for your loss, bone cancer is such a sneaky illness.

We lost our Dane at the new year because of it. Like you I was expecting the diagnosis of arthritis but ended up with a shock. Still not over it yet but it has got easier with time.
 
I am so sorry you lost your gorgeous boy so young. You did the right thing by him - bone cancer is a horrible disease, sadly there is nothing that can be done about it.

We lost Jakey a month ago and I still think I see him around the house and on walks when a shadow tricks me. My heart skips a beat every time...
 
I really had never heard of bone cancer, me being naive I guess. But now we've done our research into it, I am so so glad I made the decision not to bring him out of sedation. He was so very stoic (sp) and tried so hard to carry on as normal.

I am so deeply sorry for other's losses to. xx
 
Don't doubt yourself even for a minute. It's a horrific disease that spreads very quickly and is diagnosed very late so you did the right thing by him. You made the tough decision so he would not suffer and it's one of the best, and last, things we can do for our pets.
 
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