Grumpystiltskin
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I'm a long time lurker but first time poster here. Had a bit of a disaster yesterday when Horse got his leg over the breast bar of the trailer and I've had a sleepless night thinking about all the things I'm doing wrong. Please read and comment if you can help?
1. Horse is 15.3hh Cob and was in an Ifor Williams 505 with the partition and breast bar on high, breach bar on low. Is this too small for him? Some women were really nasty to me shouting that I shouldn't be allowed a horse as this trailer is too small even though it's advertised as for 2 horses up to 16.2hh.
2. I was at the show (local village show type) on my own and had left him in the trailer with a hay net whilst I went to enter, walk the course and collect some tack I had bought. He was on his own for about 30min. Is this too long to leave him? If so then how does anyone ever compete on their own? I can't afford a lorry as use the 4X4 for work and couldn't run both vehicles.
3. He travels ok but I had several minor heart attacks driving back as every time I stopped I thought he would do it again. How do I stop him doing it again? I think he would have done it even if I had been in the 4x4 so how do I stop him trying to do it again?
I'm so grateful to the people who got him out of the trailer (he had got the hay net stuck under his shoe and it was tied well off the ground so he was really going for it) but some of the crowd who had gathered were really vile to me. I thanked everyone and chatted to the steward but these women just stood there being really nasty for about 15min afterwards until an absolutely lovely gent helped me load him again and I could escape from them.
I've seen this happen before at shows and always thought it was just one of things that horses do sometimes, we can't always predict them, perhaps I'm wrong and it's the handler's fault all along?
After an accident many years ago when someone fell asleep and drove into our LR and trailer, I was just starting to become a bit more confident (having passed my towing test). Now I just feel like it's all pointless because I can't take him anywhere as I can't stand with him the whole time.
Thank you for getting to the end of that ramble.
1. Horse is 15.3hh Cob and was in an Ifor Williams 505 with the partition and breast bar on high, breach bar on low. Is this too small for him? Some women were really nasty to me shouting that I shouldn't be allowed a horse as this trailer is too small even though it's advertised as for 2 horses up to 16.2hh.
2. I was at the show (local village show type) on my own and had left him in the trailer with a hay net whilst I went to enter, walk the course and collect some tack I had bought. He was on his own for about 30min. Is this too long to leave him? If so then how does anyone ever compete on their own? I can't afford a lorry as use the 4X4 for work and couldn't run both vehicles.
3. He travels ok but I had several minor heart attacks driving back as every time I stopped I thought he would do it again. How do I stop him doing it again? I think he would have done it even if I had been in the 4x4 so how do I stop him trying to do it again?
I'm so grateful to the people who got him out of the trailer (he had got the hay net stuck under his shoe and it was tied well off the ground so he was really going for it) but some of the crowd who had gathered were really vile to me. I thanked everyone and chatted to the steward but these women just stood there being really nasty for about 15min afterwards until an absolutely lovely gent helped me load him again and I could escape from them.
I've seen this happen before at shows and always thought it was just one of things that horses do sometimes, we can't always predict them, perhaps I'm wrong and it's the handler's fault all along?
After an accident many years ago when someone fell asleep and drove into our LR and trailer, I was just starting to become a bit more confident (having passed my towing test). Now I just feel like it's all pointless because I can't take him anywhere as I can't stand with him the whole time.
Thank you for getting to the end of that ramble.