Made a new video of daphi

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I dont think jordonross deserves to be banned and certain others need to stop provoking as it has got very bitchy from evryday users on here me thinks

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Agreed, there are other boards on the 'net where the Flamers would have been banned, or at least suspended, for their behaviour. It takes two to fight and there are several people who seem to be determined to put the boot in.
 
regardless of what has gone on on her i think your horse looks healthy has plenty of hay and water has a lovely bed and looks well looked after and thats the main thing
p.s have you found a riding club yet?????
 
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I feel i defended myself well. if people dont like swear words... then maybe they shouldnt post ridiculous nasty comments about me when they DONT ven know me.

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Hurling insults is not defending yourself. It's JUST hurling insults.
And you are YOU to post ridiculous nasty comments at people YOU don't even know?

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what goes around comes around..... and lets face it...some of the old boots in here need telling straight

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Oh, that was unwarranted, wasn't it? Especially since you weren't going to get abusive in this thread.

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and im not one to mix my words. if they dont like my attitude why do they bother posting in my thread? ill tell you why....cos theyve got bloody nothing else better to do.

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Pot, Kettle, BLACK. What are YOU doing on the forum spouting pages and pages of venom at people you don't know?
Right, I'm off. Can't be arsed any more.
 
Perhaps the 'personal issues' he referred to in a previous post refer to Bi Polarism. Because this certainly is not the same 'character' that originally started posting a few weeks ago.

Very sad. And I hope he's getting the support and treatment he needs.

What a very unpleasant message Ihotse.
 
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A) how did he know it was you who had reported him?
b) heard of the IU button
c) there is no way in the world the police would do anything about the fact you are getting nasty PM's on an internet forum!


D) AND THIS IS A BIG ONE-------- No i am not sticking up for Jordan, his comments have been down right nasty (although he has taken a fair amount of flack back), but you know how to stop them--- dont post on his threads and put him on user ignore... simples!
 
Ihotse, from what I have read in JR's threads you seem to have enjoyed fanning the flames and provoked a reaction.

If you don't know him in real life you surely can't gauge the tone of his posts? It's so very easy to misjudge someone from what they put on a forum. He could be having a bad day and over emotional or just over indulged
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he wont be the first to do it on here.

The horse world is made up from people from all walks of life - can't see why the HHO forum has to be any different
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I think a period away from here would do him some good. He started off being a bit naive but very caring but the language he used yesterday re sexual slang is the first time i've seen that on the forum.

I think there must be some demons he is battling to degenerate so quickly and I think as lexie says just UI him. There is no point having a slanging match with someone who doesn't appear to be very mentally stable at the moment.
 
Or possibly, when he first joined the forum, he was just doing a better job of hiding what sort of person he really is...

The easiest thing to do is not to respond to him at all. IMHO most of it is attention seeking anyway. If he really wanted advice then he would at least take some of that given on here recently, however he ignores all of it and uses any opinion differing from his own as an excuse to hurl insults at other forum members. Leave him to it. Unfortunately you don't have to take a competancy exam to own a horse so hopefully one day he will eventually wake up and realise how blinkered he is being in refusing to help himself.

PS...AMymay, how is your friend's horse doing now?
 
I have deleted my above post. Admin have had a read, and he has been banned form the forum. Actually, his language was a lot worse after I had gone to be last night, his repeated use of a vulger word was duly reported this morning. I do not wish for my 13yr old neice to read it. I imformed Jordan that I had reported him, in the thread, not by PM.
This is the last time I will write anything on any of these threads. I'm quite frankly appalled by the gross language and do not want to get involved with anything so disgusting again. This forum is about horses, not female reproductive parts and their alternative names.
 
I read some of his stuff on you tube & tbh I think he just likes to rub people up the wrong way. Plus it wouldnt surprise if the horse is his partner horse!
 
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Perhaps the 'personal issues' he referred to in a previous post refer to Bi Polarism. Because this certainly is not the same 'character' that originally started posting a few weeks ago.

Very sad. And I hope he's getting the support and treatment he needs.

What a very unpleasant message Ihotse.

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OMG I didnt know you were capabe of diagnosing someone with Bi Polar (Manic Depression) from a few posts about their horse...

wow.
 
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Perhaps the 'personal issues' he referred to in a previous post refer to Bi Polarism. Because this certainly is not the same 'character' that originally started posting a few weeks ago.

Very sad. And I hope he's getting the support and treatment he needs.

What a very unpleasant message Ihotse.

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OMG I didnt know you were capabe of diagnosing someone with Bi Polar (Manic Depression) from a few posts about their horse... wow.

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I think you'd be amazed at what can be picked up about people from their posts Charlie
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Perhaps the 'personal issues' he referred to in a previous post refer to Bi Polarism. Because this certainly is not the same 'character' that originally started posting a few weeks ago.

Very sad. And I hope he's getting the support and treatment he needs.

What a very unpleasant message Ihotse.

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OMG I didnt know you were capabe of diagnosing someone with Bi Polar (Manic Depression) from a few posts about their horse... wow.

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I think you'd be amazed at what can be picked up about people from their posts Charlie
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I agree Amymay, I did think he had asbergers or something, he certainly is not quite normal (whatever normal is lol), his complete personality transplant (or so it seemed) last night was quite shocking.
 
QR I've sat on this all day but can hold my tongue no longer.

whilst in no way condoning the language used, i think the OP was drunk... as stated.

|is it any wonder he doesnt want to go to a livery yard after the behaviour towards him here? So what, he doesnt appear 'normal' to you (what is 'normal' in your eyes??) and so is someone to be ridiculed and poked fun at?


So the guy bought a horse without having done what most would do first (brush up on knowledge etc) but is that such a crime??

I think if you remember he was wavering towards going to a livery yard, but I do wonder if the portrayal of 'horsey people' on here has changed his mind?

The language used last night was obviously not right, but certain users do like to poke at people, make saracastic comments and enjoy the excitement of such a post.

Maybe THEY are the people who should get a life, and stop being drama queens?? The same few people who posted on each one of his posts making similar comments KNOWING the reaction it would bring. Why say it if you know what will happen?? Unless you enjoy upsetting others? It's all stuff that's been said to me in the past so why not take all your own words on board?

The mare is well cared for, obviously VERY loved, and to me thats what matters.

This forum is fast becoming an uncomfortable place to be... spoilt by the few who think they know it all, that none is as superior as them and whom then act all shocked when someone swears at them. Do you behave the same at your livery yards??


Well done guys (the few know who they are) we now have a novice horse owner loose with a lame TB mare and nowhere to turn to for advice. HUGE pat on the back to you...
 
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Well done guys (the few know who they are) we now have a novice horse owner loose with a lame TB mare and nowhere to turn to for advice. HUGE pat on the back to you...

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With any luck that wil encourage him to either sell it or livery it.
 
I actually think the horse looks very well cared for too. But I also think the horse belongs to someone else in the household, mother or sister maybe. He stated that the vet was coming out to poultice again, but where is the poultice in his latest video?? The horse is fine, and someone is just using her as an excuse to come on here and cause trouble. Sounds like he likes to cause trouble on Youtube as well, judging by his feedback.
 
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so i gather!

Uses his gayness as a weapon too. I hate that in man.

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HOW???
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I just KNEW someone would bring his sexuality into it.

This has sunk to an all time low
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QR I've sat on this all day but can hold my tongue no longer.

whilst in no way condoning the language used, i think the OP was drunk... as stated.

|is it any wonder he doesnt want to go to a livery yard after the behaviour towards him here? So what, he doesnt appear 'normal' to you (what is 'normal' in your eyes??) and so is someone to be ridiculed and poked fun at?


So the guy bought a horse without having done what most would do first (brush up on knowledge etc) but is that such a crime??

I think if you remember he was wavering towards going to a livery yard, but I do wonder if the portrayal of 'horsey people' on here has changed his mind?

The language used last night was obviously not right, but certain users do like to poke at people, make saracastic comments and enjoy the excitement of such a post.

Maybe THEY are the people who should get a life, and stop being drama queens?? The same few people who posted on each one of his posts making similar comments KNOWING the reaction it would bring. Why say it if you know what will happen?? Unless you enjoy upsetting others? It's all stuff that's been said to me in the past so why not take all your own words on board?

The mare is well cared for, obviously VERY loved, and to me thats what matters.

This forum is fast becoming an uncomfortable place to be... spoilt by the few who think they know it all, that none is as superior as them and whom then act all shocked when someone swears at them. Do you behave the same at your livery yards??


Well done guys (the few know who they are) we now have a novice horse owner loose with a lame TB mare and nowhere to turn to for advice. HUGE pat on the back to you...

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Get your damn facts straight, I at no time took the mickey out of him, how dare you!

If you had bothered to read the post properly you would know this.

For the record, JR got abusive well before anyone else did, again if you had bothered to read the posts properly you would know this. There was absolutely no excuse for him speaking to bugaboo etc in the way he did so get off your high horse.

ETS: By the way if he was that drunk how come he could type properly, I know I as hell could not.
 
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so i gather!

Uses his gayness as a weapon too. I hate that in man.

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HOW???
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I just KNEW someone would bring his sexuality into it.

This has sunk to an all time low
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Hang on just a sec. That's a bit ironic. I could say that calling HHOers 'slags' and 'c***s' was bringing OUR sexual behaviour in to the discussion WAY before anyone mentioned Jordan's sexual orientation. I find it amazing that ONE vague comment about J's sexuality is sinking to an all time low and pages and pages of obscenities isn't....
 
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Well done guys (the few know who they are) we now have a novice horse owner loose with a lame TB mare and nowhere to turn to for advice. HUGE pat on the back to you...

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Oh please. Stop with the violins. He can get help/advice any time he wants it from a vet (the one that came out to treat Daphi for instance) a farrier, tack shops, etc, etc, etc. And of course books.
 
Before being directly rude towards me, was my post aimed at YOU??? So actually, how dare YOU...

paranoia or what.........
 
well, I must say that even now he is excluded from this forum he is still causing trouble.

I had the misfortune of reading all those pages of the trouble some post and I was offended by it, so much so that I also requested that something be done... normally I just ignore but this was beyond a joke, just like this internal bickering is.

I must say if he was a troll he has done a damn good job at setting people at one anothers throats.

please get a grip.
 
Thank goodness he has gone. The guy was out of order with his language on here. I had already asked him to temper it as there are kids use this forum. I wasn't around when it obviously went evcen further downhill.
I really hope that he sells that poor horse, this is the guy who asked if she was limping does it mean she was lame, asked if he should put a band aid on it, has no idea how to tack up, no wonder the poor creature got grumpy. It was a disaster waiting to happen.
I don't think people were bitchy or nasty really, (not while I was still on) i think they were just getting so frustrated with his attitude and refusal to do the sensible thing by going to a yard. One minute he says it was because it seemed like a waste of money as he has his own land etc. Then he said it was for personal reasons, make up your mind. Total drama queen in my opinion.
He is not thinking of whats best for the horse, far from it, he is a spoilt brat who wanted a pony to play with, went and got one regardless of the consequences for the horse.

As for the horse looking well cared for, well he has only had her a few weeks. Of course she does. He had also posted earlier that he was findijng it hard work and was thinking of selling her. I didn't post but i just thouight, wait til winter, then you will know how hard it really is. He is struggling in summer when we are all thrilled at having a relatively easy life for a few months.

I am sure he will find another forum to go and wind up now. He was all nicey nicey on here until he got the answers he was looking for and then he turned nasty. He will do the same wherever he goes.

I really hope this works out well for Daphi and she ends up in a home with someone who has the knowledge to look after her properly.
 
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