Kat_Bath
Well-Known Member
I feel quite embarrassed to be writing this because I feel like I should be able to make some decisions and/or answer most of my questions myself or by doing some research but I'm actually finding that I am really lacking in dog friends to talk to (get your tiny violins out!). Instead, I'm going to write what could be a very ramble-y post and hope some of you might share some pearls of wisdom...
I have been in touch with a local trainer who does come highly recommended but that's one of my worries - what if she's not a good choice?! Also, she hasn't got back to me yet so all my thoughts are still rattling around my head! Also, that's just one person's way of doing things? Ahhhh - I don't know! I need to talk about dogs to someone!
Look at that face - the face of innocence! Ooo, it's lovely to be able to post pictures!
Harvey has been with us for 3 weeks but it feels like he's always been here. He's an absolute diamond when he's on his own and in the house, he walks to heel, sits, lies down, waits, leaves etc. The only black mark against his name is when he meets other dogs - he pulls and pulls if he's on the lead. We are really careful and if we're in a busy environment, he's always on lead because he can get a bit over-friendly. If he's off lead (at the moment, there's only one walk where we let him off), we can normally call him back and grab him but if he's already having a sniff, we just have to carry on walking and he will follow. He's not perfect but in the last 3 weeks, he has improved so much. It's just that now, I want to try and refine things but I'm not sure we're doing the right things to help this. Hopefully a trainer will help but I'm hoping I could get some views on a few things:
Firstly, harnesses/leads/collars etc. He came with a slip lead which just strangled him and he ended up with very bloodshot eyes. However, that was on our first walk and we didn't know each other and he was just over-excited and it also didn't help that he had been cooped up in a flat for a couple of months. He's also got an extendy lead, which I hate, but it does help us out when in busy environments so I'm ok with that for now - he's actually quite respectful of it. We ditched the slip and got him a harness (https://bit.ly/2DG1P2n) which has worked out well but I don't think it helps with the pulling (plus point is that it does have a big handle). I'm really reluctant to put a halti collar on him because I see them as a bit of a gadget. Maybe I'm 100% wrong but in the last 3 weeks, he has got so much better so I have faith that we can sort it. I have had people tell me I could use one for 6 months and then take it off and he'll be fine but I'm not sure. I think we have come to the conclusion the harness works well but that the one we've got isn't a great fit. Am I right to stick with a harness? Is there one which would help us with the pulling a bit more? He walks to heel on a loose lead when on his own though so maybe we should re-visit the slip or just walk him off his collar but I'm not sure how I feel about that when he still pulls. I'm rambling...
The second thing is, thus far, we've done all training without food because he absolutely loves people and cuddles. He's also not particularly greedy and I worry if we start using food that he'll become food orientated? However, I'm getting to the point where I wonder if a little bit of food would just persuade him? Is that a slippery slope? For example, normally, when we go over to the field near our house to play fetch, he is good as gold but this morning, he was a bit naughty and wouldn't bring the ball back on the third throw (he went over to the other side of the field). As it was 7am, I felt I couldn't shout him back and he was some distance away. I ended up going to get him and walking home and I think he knew he'd not been a Very Good Boy because he was very obedient all the way back (I didn't tell him off, I just went to get him as I couldn't be sure he wouldn't do the same thing again). I was thinking about trying again for his lunch time walk but potentially taking some treats with me...
Here's another picture of him because I've written loads of words so far!
I don't actually think there's much else to write because my brain now feels a bit empty!
I know he's getting better and I know that working with a trainer will help but see the top about waiting for her to get back to me...
Thank you to anyone who has got this far. I'm unsure as to whether to post this but I do feel better for writing it so here goes... Eek!
I have been in touch with a local trainer who does come highly recommended but that's one of my worries - what if she's not a good choice?! Also, she hasn't got back to me yet so all my thoughts are still rattling around my head! Also, that's just one person's way of doing things? Ahhhh - I don't know! I need to talk about dogs to someone!
Look at that face - the face of innocence! Ooo, it's lovely to be able to post pictures!
Harvey has been with us for 3 weeks but it feels like he's always been here. He's an absolute diamond when he's on his own and in the house, he walks to heel, sits, lies down, waits, leaves etc. The only black mark against his name is when he meets other dogs - he pulls and pulls if he's on the lead. We are really careful and if we're in a busy environment, he's always on lead because he can get a bit over-friendly. If he's off lead (at the moment, there's only one walk where we let him off), we can normally call him back and grab him but if he's already having a sniff, we just have to carry on walking and he will follow. He's not perfect but in the last 3 weeks, he has improved so much. It's just that now, I want to try and refine things but I'm not sure we're doing the right things to help this. Hopefully a trainer will help but I'm hoping I could get some views on a few things:
Firstly, harnesses/leads/collars etc. He came with a slip lead which just strangled him and he ended up with very bloodshot eyes. However, that was on our first walk and we didn't know each other and he was just over-excited and it also didn't help that he had been cooped up in a flat for a couple of months. He's also got an extendy lead, which I hate, but it does help us out when in busy environments so I'm ok with that for now - he's actually quite respectful of it. We ditched the slip and got him a harness (https://bit.ly/2DG1P2n) which has worked out well but I don't think it helps with the pulling (plus point is that it does have a big handle). I'm really reluctant to put a halti collar on him because I see them as a bit of a gadget. Maybe I'm 100% wrong but in the last 3 weeks, he has got so much better so I have faith that we can sort it. I have had people tell me I could use one for 6 months and then take it off and he'll be fine but I'm not sure. I think we have come to the conclusion the harness works well but that the one we've got isn't a great fit. Am I right to stick with a harness? Is there one which would help us with the pulling a bit more? He walks to heel on a loose lead when on his own though so maybe we should re-visit the slip or just walk him off his collar but I'm not sure how I feel about that when he still pulls. I'm rambling...
The second thing is, thus far, we've done all training without food because he absolutely loves people and cuddles. He's also not particularly greedy and I worry if we start using food that he'll become food orientated? However, I'm getting to the point where I wonder if a little bit of food would just persuade him? Is that a slippery slope? For example, normally, when we go over to the field near our house to play fetch, he is good as gold but this morning, he was a bit naughty and wouldn't bring the ball back on the third throw (he went over to the other side of the field). As it was 7am, I felt I couldn't shout him back and he was some distance away. I ended up going to get him and walking home and I think he knew he'd not been a Very Good Boy because he was very obedient all the way back (I didn't tell him off, I just went to get him as I couldn't be sure he wouldn't do the same thing again). I was thinking about trying again for his lunch time walk but potentially taking some treats with me...
Here's another picture of him because I've written loads of words so far!
I don't actually think there's much else to write because my brain now feels a bit empty!
I know he's getting better and I know that working with a trainer will help but see the top about waiting for her to get back to me...
Thank you to anyone who has got this far. I'm unsure as to whether to post this but I do feel better for writing it so here goes... Eek!