tinkandlily
Well-Known Member
I have just retired from the force after 26 years so have probably seen enough to give you some brief insights.
Shift work and family life are difficult to blend together, the only way I coped was to pay an au pair for 10 years. If you are due to finish your shift at 10pm for example, you may not get off until 2 in the morning if you have somebody in custody.
You will see and hear things that, on reflection, you might have preferred to go through life in blissful ignorance of..you will see the worst that people can do to each other, you will see horrific injuries, you will be endlessly frustrated at your inability to do very much about those who inflict that pain.
You will have to choose your friends carefully, you will have to be careful about your child's friends...children of police officers can be victimised, especially if you live in the community that you police. You will be subject to vetting, as will your partner and family, for many roles that vetting is extended and quite intrusive. The police control where you live and, to an extent, what you do in your spare time, if you ever commit an offence you cn expect to be dealt with far more stringently by a court than any other member of the public.
Specifically to the mounted section, there is football of course, so that is most weekends wiped out, ceremonial occasionally and box patrols relating to public order hotspots..which involves loading the horses up and trundling off to the most far flung town or city in the force, patrolling on the horses, then boxing them up and returning to the stables...nearly always on a weekend again.
Those are most of the negatives. The positives are that it can be an immensely satisfying job, there is a real sense of belonging to a team and it can be great fun too.
On balance, if I had a young child I wouldn't join. I think the impact on family life is just too great.
Thank you for that, the officer to spoke told me he worked 3 days in- off 2 days, but missed out the staying late if you've got a suspect. Now i,ve had some good advise, it sounds like something i'll do later in life, no one really explained how much impact it would have on family life.