AmyMay
Situation normal
27th of every month
Then you're obliged to give a months notice.
27th of every month
27th of every month
Well not if she did not know/agree it verbally in the first place there isn't![]()
I've never been on a yard that had a contract but I always a give a months notice, I just think that I would want a months notice to leave, so it only seems fair to do the same back.
IF the YO wanted you off the yard how much notice would you want her to give you? Would you be annoyed if she told you on Monday that she wanted you off by Friday?
Well she would be within her rights to do so as there is not contract - she could have thrown me off last night if she really wanted to and there would be nothing I could do about it - me being annoyed or not changes nothing
I said nothing about shopping her to the tax man so no idea where you get that - I simply mentioned it as that's why shes got no contract in place and doesn't want one as it would show she is running a legit business and could get her into bother - what she does with her money is her business.
Once again - there is a contract.
It is when it is unclear what the appropriate notice is that things go wrong - I gave more than the month's notice stipulated in my contract but apparently i gave it on the wrong day so it didn't count...??
I've never been on a yard that had a contract but I always a give a months notice, I just think that I would want a months notice to leave, so it only seems fair to do the same back.
IF the YO wanted you off the yard how much notice would you want her to give you? Would you be annoyed if she told you on Monday that she wanted you off by Friday?
I give up.
Good luck with the move.
I was perfectly calm and polite the entire time - I never raised my voice and actually offered the 2 weeks early in the discussion fyi. I offered it and I will pay it regardless of how angry I am at the threat of chucking me off her yard there and then or locking my horses up and holding them to ransom. She has already filled the stable as she went on at length as to how she has people lining up to get a stable so she is effectively being paid twice for it. I think that's more than fairI think that OP has not been very fair or respective to her YO in only giving very short notice. I had a livery do that, and it was a shock that someone I thought of as nice would treat me that way - perhaps this is why YO reacted angrily? I think that both sides should be polite and give decent periods of notice. For me, two weeks is the absolute minimum, four is polite, unless someone or something is in danger. OP you only agreed to two weeks after a row, and even now you're coming across as though you think you've been too generous.. And you wonder why her attitude is not good towards you??
You are braver than me then. I'd freak out. A yard near us has had two horses on 'ransom' for months now over an unpaid livery bill. The very thought of not having total control over him would horrify me!
Initially you offered to the end of the week, and in your initial post you said you regretted changing it to two weeks.
She will only be saying she has filled the stable to save face - people may have told her they would like to come on the yard, but by the time she has contacted them and they've given notice they will hardly be moving on before your two weeks pay runs out, so she won't be getting paid twice..
ps, when I moved my horse from DIY to home I gave a week's notice, but paid a month.
I have seen YO's throw liveries off with an hours notice in the past and people leave yards with no notice at all.
She's agreed to it by paying for a service.