Natassia
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Firstly sorry for not posting for ages then writing an essay, but I'm really desparate for help here, so upset and frustrated at the same time!
My horse has always been a bit naughty to catch, he seems to like playing games but generally he will give up if I keep walking after him - I can normally get a rope around his neck and then put the headcollar on, then he gets a treat and lots of praise. He really isn't that fussed about food so tempting him doesn't work, but I do like to reward him.
But then every so often (more recently when I've asked a friend to bring him in if I'm working late) he's really bad...to the point when this week I've had to give up (have to leave the yard by 9pm) and leave him out with the others overnight, then of course he's won. He stayed out Mon night and last night, this morning I managed to get a headcollar onto him, however this evening he wasn't having any of it, I could stroke his face but not touch the headcollar, and couldn't go to the side of him so quietly clipping the leadrope on wasn't an option. In the end myself and some others at the yard managed to herd him into the stable after taking the other horses out of the field. I know that isn't the ideal way of doing things but I couldn't leave him out another night, and I didn't want him wearing the headcollar in the field overnight.
He seemed to know he'd done something wrong after he'd gone into his stable, and was quieter than usual. I feel so guilty for getting him into the stable in this way, he wasn't stressed but obviously I would rather have caught him properly. On the other hand he's been playing a game for the last 2 days and won, and was getting worse so I had to go for the last resort. I'm so upset about it because he's been so good for the last 2 weeks and I'm trying to work out why the sudden change...however he's been like this with others for a few months now and its worked for him so I guess it was a matter of time before he tried it with me.
I am really at my wit's end and so worried about tomorrow night now, I'm sorry if this post is a bit muddled but I have a splitting headache and I'm exhausted from it and other things I have going on....I really need to sort this problem out though, so any advice really appreciated. Natassia xx
My horse has always been a bit naughty to catch, he seems to like playing games but generally he will give up if I keep walking after him - I can normally get a rope around his neck and then put the headcollar on, then he gets a treat and lots of praise. He really isn't that fussed about food so tempting him doesn't work, but I do like to reward him.
But then every so often (more recently when I've asked a friend to bring him in if I'm working late) he's really bad...to the point when this week I've had to give up (have to leave the yard by 9pm) and leave him out with the others overnight, then of course he's won. He stayed out Mon night and last night, this morning I managed to get a headcollar onto him, however this evening he wasn't having any of it, I could stroke his face but not touch the headcollar, and couldn't go to the side of him so quietly clipping the leadrope on wasn't an option. In the end myself and some others at the yard managed to herd him into the stable after taking the other horses out of the field. I know that isn't the ideal way of doing things but I couldn't leave him out another night, and I didn't want him wearing the headcollar in the field overnight.
He seemed to know he'd done something wrong after he'd gone into his stable, and was quieter than usual. I feel so guilty for getting him into the stable in this way, he wasn't stressed but obviously I would rather have caught him properly. On the other hand he's been playing a game for the last 2 days and won, and was getting worse so I had to go for the last resort. I'm so upset about it because he's been so good for the last 2 weeks and I'm trying to work out why the sudden change...however he's been like this with others for a few months now and its worked for him so I guess it was a matter of time before he tried it with me.
I am really at my wit's end and so worried about tomorrow night now, I'm sorry if this post is a bit muddled but I have a splitting headache and I'm exhausted from it and other things I have going on....I really need to sort this problem out though, so any advice really appreciated. Natassia xx