Erehwemos
Well-Known Member
I love her to bits, I truly do.
We went on a fun ride today, and although I had fully intended to jump, when I saw the first line of fences my nerve failed me (yet again) and I chickened out! I have tried so hard to get my confidence back, but every now and again I just have a panic about what could happen if it went wrong...
Anyway, a couple of miles on we came to more jumps, this time set at large-ish distances around the edge of the field, more like a proper XC course. I didnt do the first, but then some horses ahead of me started to jump so Ellie and I tagged along behind. She jumped every single one!
Even better, we then came to a yard which owns a large field full of XC schooling jumps, who had kindly allowed us to jump round the course as many times as we liked - I couldnt believe it! Again, we set off doing the tiddly ones - completely on our own this time - and she flew every single one, to the point that my confidence grew a bit more and we started doing a couple of the middle/bigger sized ones
I know this isnt a huge deal to many people, but I have always been hugely anti-XC, always scared of the solidness of the jumps. Ellie has never done XC properly in all her 14 years - we did go to PC camp twice, but both times I tended to chicken out of most of the XC sessions
SJ was our thing, but when we had our nasty fall I lost all confidence, and swore I'd never jump again. It seems ironic that I am now getting braver, albeit over the fences I used to dread even when we were doing well show jumping!
I am definitely going to enter a hunter trial now
Will someone please remember this, and remind me I said it if I have a confidence wobble in the future?!?
Off topic, it never ceases to amaze me how some people hammer their horses on these rides
And also, how some are so blissfully ignorant of basic horsemanship, even if they are polite with it! Two ladies came careering into Ellie's back end without warning, almost like they were using us as a buffer, and although she didnt kick, she pulled a very nasty face at them. I shouted at them to please keep a distance or come past (there was plenty of room, we were in a field) and all they said was, 'Awww that's a nasty face isnt it! Are you enjoying the ride?' Very nice and polite, but lacking common sense I think....it has actually made me think I might put a ribbon in her tail - not because she kicks out of habit, but more to just make people think twice
Anyway, that's enough moaning for now
The bottom line is, my horsey jumped clear round a XC course today, in spite of a total lack of experience and having to lug a trembly, incompetent lardy lump around
She's an absolute angel - and I dont even mind the fact that she wouldnt let me catch her again tonight!
We went on a fun ride today, and although I had fully intended to jump, when I saw the first line of fences my nerve failed me (yet again) and I chickened out! I have tried so hard to get my confidence back, but every now and again I just have a panic about what could happen if it went wrong...
Anyway, a couple of miles on we came to more jumps, this time set at large-ish distances around the edge of the field, more like a proper XC course. I didnt do the first, but then some horses ahead of me started to jump so Ellie and I tagged along behind. She jumped every single one!
I know this isnt a huge deal to many people, but I have always been hugely anti-XC, always scared of the solidness of the jumps. Ellie has never done XC properly in all her 14 years - we did go to PC camp twice, but both times I tended to chicken out of most of the XC sessions
I am definitely going to enter a hunter trial now
Off topic, it never ceases to amaze me how some people hammer their horses on these rides
Anyway, that's enough moaning for now