my little girl has gone....

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just to update and thank everyone for their kind well wishes, but we had to make the decision to put my precious little girl to sleep this morning:(:(:( God bless you Diva, my clever beautiful girl. She was only 18 months old.. the one to the far right in my signature :(
 
I'm so very sorry. Always heartbreaking decision to make but in one so young it cuts deeper. Run Free sweetheart no more pain now. xxx
 
just to update and thank everyone for their kind well wishes, but we had to make the decision to put my precious little girl to sleep this morning:(:(:( God bless you Diva, my clever beautiful girl. She was only 18 months old.. the one to the far right in my signature :(

I am really sorry. You took a gamble on her when you had her, and sadly on this occassion you lost. At least you gave her a chance xx
 
I have just read your previous posts. I am really sorry, this is always devastating but the circumstances it seems even worse. At least you gave her every chance and I hope that gives you some consolation. RIP
 
thank you.... i know the non-doggy people around me dont understand, but i feel utterly bereft, just physically sick and the pain of grief at her loss is unbearable. I loved her so much and although i have 5 others here, just now, all i want is her... and i dont think i''l ever have such a bond with a dog ever again.We had a 'connection', we saw into each others souls, i know it sounds pathetic but its true.
 
thank you.... i know the non-doggy people around me dont understand, but i feel utterly bereft, just physically sick and the pain of grief at her loss is unbearable. I loved her so much and although i have 5 others here, just now, all i want is her... and i dont think i''l ever have such a bond with a dog ever again.We had a 'connection', we saw into each others souls, i know it sounds pathetic but its true.

I know exactly what you mean. Just count yourself lucky that you were able to have that special relationship with her at all, so many people never get to experience something so beautiful and so many dogs never get lucky enough to have an owner who is open to that kind of relationship x
 
thank you.... i know the non-doggy people around me dont understand, but i feel utterly bereft, just physically sick and the pain of grief at her loss is unbearable. I loved her so much and although i have 5 others here, just now, all i want is her... and i dont think i''l ever have such a bond with a dog ever again.We had a 'connection', we saw into each others souls, i know it sounds pathetic but its true.

Completely understand. Have pm'd you, hunny.
 
thank you.... i know the non-doggy people around me dont understand, but i feel utterly bereft, just physically sick and the pain of grief at her loss is unbearable. I loved her so much and although i have 5 others here, just now, all i want is her... and i dont think i''l ever have such a bond with a dog ever again.We had a 'connection', we saw into each others souls, i know it sounds pathetic but its true.

Totally understand, I have loved and lost many dogs, and grieved for them all, but some are just that little bit more special and the loss is particularly hard. RIP Diva. x
 
So sorry to hear this. Well done for giving her the chance in life she deserved. She lived her short time with you to the full and you did your very best by her. Loosing them young is so hard, I lost one 8 days before her first birthday, I understand what you mean about the 'special' connection, for some cruel reason these friends of ours that burn the brightest in our hearts, seem to be taken away the quickest, almost like they were always far to good for this world.
Big Hugs hun xxxx
 
Iam so very sorry to read this. You gave her every chance and tried your very best for her, but sadly it was not to be.

RIP Diva and lots of hugs to you xxxxx
 
thank you.... i know the non-doggy people around me dont understand, but i feel utterly bereft, just physically sick and the pain of grief at her loss is unbearable. I loved her so much and although i have 5 others here, just now, all i want is her... and i dont think i''l ever have such a bond with a dog ever again.We had a 'connection', we saw into each others souls, i know it sounds pathetic but its true.
i def understand you,i lost my black whippy almost a year ago and i miss soo much,i had to say good bye,which was the hardest thing i ever had to do..she was only 8 years
and yours was so young(sorry havent read all posts)
its heartbreaking to loose a member of the family which im surly know they are

it will take time,and you dont sound pathetic
i remember the day i had my whippy pts it was awful but the following day i saw a rainbow in the sky which was a comfort and knowing she was there(yes it may sound silly to some) and saying thank you for not letting her suffer any more
it take good ownership to realise it time to let their animals go and not to keep them going for our own benefit and company
 
thank you everyone, although nothing can be said to make it better, the support of like minded people is a real comfort. At the moment i am just wracked with guilt that i hope i did the right thing for her, although we have 5 other dogs , we have been so very fortunate til now and never lost one. my elderly lab is on limited time though, he is fourteen and a half. I am finding the burden of the decision i had to make so very hard to bear at the moment, although i take solace from the fact that the discomfort and distress is all mine now, and not hers.

i am taking some comfort tonight from my 3 year old bitch Swift, who was her bestest buddy... she is sporting some lovely chewed teeth marks in her very expensive leather collar that her wee sister put there a few weeks ago. swift hasnt ever been a cuddly dog really, but tonight she is cuddled up close and following me everywhere.
 
So sorry for your loss, ive had to make the same decision (sp) twice in two years. The first time was easy, Jake was in pain and i wasnt going to let my precious boy suffer. The second time was a different story, very complicated. The guilt was unbearable. But it does get easier over time.

We do whats best for our best friends.

Huge ((hugs)) xx RIP Diva
 
I feel your pain having gone through this recently. As you say no words can make it better, but somehow, knowing I had support out there in cyberspace, really helped me.
hugs.
 
Oh NSN - you really have my heartfelt sympathy. I am in tears reading these posts. You have absolutely no need to feel any guilt at all. What you have done is given that little girl a chance but now she is no longer suffering.
I hope your pain soon transforms into just happy memories.
 
I am so sorry :(

How terribly upsetting for you but you did everything possible for her and she obviously had a fabulous life with you whilst it lasted.

Hugs xxx
 
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