UKa
Well-Known Member
Hi, posted here the other day about my horse who has issues with her back and will only ever be on very light work from now. Have had moments up and down since then and I think I need some inspiration as to how to make me feel positive about our future lifestyle together and also how to get more fun out of what we CAN do rather than dwelling on what we CANT if that makes sense.
Basically, she will be on a schedule of ridden work in the school every say 3 days - no more than 30 mins though each - plus work on the double lunge/ long reins on other days mixed up with a bit in the horse walker and short hacks at the weekend (we used to enjoy long rides out all of which is now not possible) plus days off completely.
The bit in the school is the most daunting stuff, she has always been a horse that needed very regular work to go best and I got my confidence from riding her daily whereas now we are reduced to the limited amount, means when she plays up I am not feeling as confident but also I can't say oh I/ we just work on it tomorrow - as the next session will be a few days away. I know I can do stuff on working from the ground but it doesn't solve MY issues as well ...Have thought about asking my instructor to come and give us a shorter, light lesson but am not sure as to whether I should given the problems my horse has with her back if it is worth it?
Secondly, is there anyway I can make the non-riding groundwork days more fun?
I think I would also like something to work for and now I have plans to go to a local dressage competition just to do walk and trot test and just the one which she should be able to cope with but I am losing my nerves already as I have limited training time each week (see above) so in two minds as to whether it is the right thing although I have been so keen to take her out again to some shows and results don't matter to me.
Not sure if this makes sense at all I think I am after a fix that will make me see the fun in the horse again as at the moment it has developed into a bit of a lot of work for little gain (also fed up with conditions at current yard and wondering whether a move would help for that) ...
Not allowed jumping either which I had hoped to do more again.
(Giving it up completely is out of question - naturally)
THANKS for reading
Basically, she will be on a schedule of ridden work in the school every say 3 days - no more than 30 mins though each - plus work on the double lunge/ long reins on other days mixed up with a bit in the horse walker and short hacks at the weekend (we used to enjoy long rides out all of which is now not possible) plus days off completely.
The bit in the school is the most daunting stuff, she has always been a horse that needed very regular work to go best and I got my confidence from riding her daily whereas now we are reduced to the limited amount, means when she plays up I am not feeling as confident but also I can't say oh I/ we just work on it tomorrow - as the next session will be a few days away. I know I can do stuff on working from the ground but it doesn't solve MY issues as well ...Have thought about asking my instructor to come and give us a shorter, light lesson but am not sure as to whether I should given the problems my horse has with her back if it is worth it?
Secondly, is there anyway I can make the non-riding groundwork days more fun?
I think I would also like something to work for and now I have plans to go to a local dressage competition just to do walk and trot test and just the one which she should be able to cope with but I am losing my nerves already as I have limited training time each week (see above) so in two minds as to whether it is the right thing although I have been so keen to take her out again to some shows and results don't matter to me.
Not sure if this makes sense at all I think I am after a fix that will make me see the fun in the horse again as at the moment it has developed into a bit of a lot of work for little gain (also fed up with conditions at current yard and wondering whether a move would help for that) ...
Not allowed jumping either which I had hoped to do more again.
(Giving it up completely is out of question - naturally)
THANKS for reading