Omarkiam
Well-Known Member
Okay I didnt want to post this but really is a cry for help!
I have a new boy, a tb 15.3 ex-racer. He has an amazing jump, and from watching friends ride him I can see he has a lovely floaty canter.
I have agreed this weekend to take my two boys and a friends horse to an indoor riding school, we are going to hire it for an hour, and put 2 small jumps up.
I will be riding Scat the tb, but I am really worried about it.
I previousley had an ish, and she bolted nastily, sent me flying and I couldnt lift my head unaided for a week, and my back is now so painful sometimes I am in agony even if not moving, and it frightened the life out of me.
Ive got a lot of my confidence back from my cob x arab because he has amazing brakes.
I felt ready to take Scat on and was willing to start slowly. I knew he may have his bouncy moments due to his histroy, but didnt realise to what extent!
When jumping him, he can start to try and gallop, and does get very over excited. He does the same in open spaces, and did bolt with a friend, although I blamed her for that as she asked him to canter, whilst I was ahead on my other horse, and given the fact hes an ex-racer, in his mind he must have seen this as a race, and he galloped, on uneven ground and she went flying.
My main problem is, this school is indoors but very open, its a huge school. I am worried that hes going to try and gallop, and I will panic too much to concentrate on controlling him! One rein stop is unsuccessful with him, as he carries on going with his head to one side. I know I have to confront my fears, and other friends have cantered him and hes been fab, but don't want to look the fool in front of them!
Shes only 15 my friend, I am 20,so will feel like a right wimp if I just trot around doing no jumping or cantering!
Anybody else have these fears once upon a time after a nasty accident? And how did you over come it?
I have a new boy, a tb 15.3 ex-racer. He has an amazing jump, and from watching friends ride him I can see he has a lovely floaty canter.
I have agreed this weekend to take my two boys and a friends horse to an indoor riding school, we are going to hire it for an hour, and put 2 small jumps up.
I will be riding Scat the tb, but I am really worried about it.
I previousley had an ish, and she bolted nastily, sent me flying and I couldnt lift my head unaided for a week, and my back is now so painful sometimes I am in agony even if not moving, and it frightened the life out of me.
Ive got a lot of my confidence back from my cob x arab because he has amazing brakes.
I felt ready to take Scat on and was willing to start slowly. I knew he may have his bouncy moments due to his histroy, but didnt realise to what extent!
When jumping him, he can start to try and gallop, and does get very over excited. He does the same in open spaces, and did bolt with a friend, although I blamed her for that as she asked him to canter, whilst I was ahead on my other horse, and given the fact hes an ex-racer, in his mind he must have seen this as a race, and he galloped, on uneven ground and she went flying.
My main problem is, this school is indoors but very open, its a huge school. I am worried that hes going to try and gallop, and I will panic too much to concentrate on controlling him! One rein stop is unsuccessful with him, as he carries on going with his head to one side. I know I have to confront my fears, and other friends have cantered him and hes been fab, but don't want to look the fool in front of them!
Shes only 15 my friend, I am 20,so will feel like a right wimp if I just trot around doing no jumping or cantering!
Anybody else have these fears once upon a time after a nasty accident? And how did you over come it?