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Please can someone put this in an easy to explain way that I can just say because I’m failing to make it understandable
Totally yes and here’s the problem.Pain surely is pain and needs to be relieved asap, regardless of its source?
What are you struggling to describe? And who do you need to describe it to? A vet?
that’s so awful. I’m sorry you’re able to explain that.Nerve pain is the worst pain to experience. I shattered my spine and it wasn't as bad as neuropathy can be at times. For me, and most other humans, it feels like you hand for eg, is huge, totally numb but also agonisingly painful. It feels like its been dipped in liquid nitrogen and its being burnt off, but with cold not heat. Some people experience heat though, and the nerve damage in my feet is less painful and feels hot.
There are times when its been so bad its all I can do to get through the next 5 seconds and the next 5 and so on. Almost no painkillers stop it, not even morphine. Diseases/conditions with associated nerve damage have the highest rate of suicide as you just cant cope with that level of pain permanently. I am very, very lucky, mine is cyclical so I get periods of very minor issues, then a huge flare up, then relative peace again. I also know the triggers and avoid them at all costs.
I don't know if that helps or not, I'm not sure it even makes sense to me!
Yes he has and the dog is on them and it’s helping.Nerve pain can be horrendous. Just think about shingles for instance, or the pain that amputees feel.
Tbh if the vet has prescribed a course of action/meds that is what your OH needs to know.
He’s not being a dick. He’s not disputing anything.
He just keeps saying it’s not in his head.
that’s so awful. I’m sorry you’re able to explain that.
So am I right, that your hand for example is actually ok, there’s nothing wrong with the joints or muscle but there’s no operation or easy fix yet it’s truly painful?
Isn’t it enough just to know that the dog is in potentially considerable pain? Does he accept that?He’s not being a dick. He’s not disputing anything.
He just keeps saying it’s not in his head.
Nobody has suggested that it is in his head, if you mean the dog's head. The pain is real *because* the nerve is either damaged or inflamed. We can't see it because the nerves aren't visible to us but the dog can certainly feel it. Presumably you took the dog to the vet because you knew that something was wrong, even if you didn't know what.He’s not being a dick. He’s not disputing anything.
He just keeps saying it’s not in his head.
Nobody has suggested that it is in his head, if you mean the dog's head. The pain is real *because* the nerve is either damaged or inflamed. We can't see it because the nerves aren't visible to us but the dog can certainly feel it. Presumably you took the dog to the vet because you knew that something was wrong, even if you didn't know what.
the problem isn’t his knee (for example) it’s probably his neck but he is feeling pain in his knee.
Yes he has and the dog is on them and it’s helping.
Then that is because MrP hasn't understood the word neurological. If the vet had meant imagined pain he would have said psychological.I feel like I constantly have to defend myself on here.
My partner keeps saying to me that it’s not in the dogs head, he seems to think that by me coming home from the vets and saying it’s neurological that I’m saying the dog is imagining the pain. Mr P is trying to argue it’s not in the dogs head, but that the dog has an injury.
I’ve been trying to explain to him that as Lady G has explained above the problem isn’t his knee (for example) it’s probably his neck but he is feeling pain in his knee. He didn’t get it and I wasn’t explaining it properly.
He’s a farmer, he could wipe the floor with me and most people with numbers and computerThen that is because MrP hasn't understood the word neurological. If the vet had meant imagined pain he would have said psychological.
He’s a farmer, he could wipe the floor with me and most people with numbers and computer
run machinery and crops and so on. Words/language etc he really struggles with.
So where you or I might think that’s obvious it’s not to everyone. I suspect he’s dyslexic.
So I think I’ve told him and 10 minutes later he will come out with something like “he definitely limped then, that was obviously a front leg not a head ache”
I feel like I’m banging my own head against a wall.
Sorry I missed this. He’s currently on GabapentinReferred pain. The problem is in one area of the body but the pain is felt somewhere else.
What is the name of the drug that is helping?
ETA. I understand if you don't wish to comment further, I'm just curious.
Unfortunately he’s one of those mega irritating people who’s never seen a dentist and has never had tooth ache.Has he ever had toothache but it hurt in a different tooth? Thats referred pain, and might help him understand.
It worked for me with sciatica very well, initially from a slipped disc but over the last few years from SI pain. I rarely get it now, whether that is because its settled down or whether it is because it has helped it I'm not sure, but I've been on it about 14 years now.I'm pretty sure the newest thought is gabapentin doesn't work. It certainly didn't for anyone I know.